it's so disappointing when your so called friends don't even try to keep in contact with you anymore once you have a baby. when before i had him they would seem to care and now... where you be?!? i have like one friend now. this happen to anyone else?!
Yup ! Once you have a baby you see who your true friends are its sad
definitely lost a lot of ppl along the way. it's all good. cut the grass and snakes will show. fuck em
In my case yeah they sorta faded away. Mm I wasn't the perfect person back then I did a lot of things I wasn't proud of as in drugs and a lot of them still do it and yeah they all Party every weekend and some have kids and they pay not attention to their poor kids
@mommakay3, so slowly your friends just kinda left your life right? why wouldn't you have wanted them around your friends tho? were they party people?
I had many friends in highschool and literally after highschool I moved in with my boyfriend and then only a few talked to me since I moved like 25 mins away but after my oldest I had maybe 4 friends and then after my middle son everyone stopped hitting me up so now I have no friends but I'm ok with it sometimes cause I wouldn't want to have them around my kids
@babynessa, i know what ya mean. if you have no one to vent to or just talk to about whatever. you just hold it all in and that's not good at all.
I have no friends since I got married and had my daughter. It honestly sucks to have no one to talk to.
Hopefully it doesn't happen to you to that point of not having any friends.. it does suck when you want someone to talk to..
@mommy082111, i feel like I'm heading that way. I guess it's not that bad but it just sucks that it happens eventually to everyone for the most part
@adventureswitheloise, I always get random texts here and there about being close again. then the next day or the next nothing... so I guess not
Same happened to me before I had my daughter, now I don't have any friends at all. it sucks but that shows how they truly are.. !! @mamaash
I think this happens to everyone from what I read on here. It's really sad, I have friends who I have been close to for 8+ years who disappeared when I had babygirl and now only contact me when they have a problem. Byeeeee👋🏻
Yupp. Then they have the nerve to comment on a picture you post of your baby "My baaaaby 😍" shit irks my souuulllll
Yea idk why that happens. Are they scared we will ask them to babysit?