does this sound bad from my boyfriend of 7 months I justill told him on Friday he finally said something tonight: I'm not avoiding you I just have alot on my plate this week. I think you should meet me sometime this weekend so we can discuss what are options are and what we're going to do.
@nessa_475, all I said was this Okay... You do what you need to do and just let me know.
give him time to absorb. if u push him too hard he'll run. answer any questions he has and reassure him that you understand him and that u do care about him a lot. @33andpregnant
thank you ladies I guess it hurts much worse when you love the guy and just want him to be there for you
he needed time to himself to let it soak in and realize what is happening. He sounds like, now, that he understands and has questions for you.
still reach out to him tho. space is good but also reassurance. men are complicated. and they say we are bad ha smh @33andpregnant