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Idk if I feel like this cause in pregnant or what, but my whole pregnancy I feel so unwanted and un apriciated. I go above and beyond for my man, I cook multiple times a day and not just freezer things that are already made. I make sure the laundry is always done and hung up instead of drying it so there's no wrinkles and they don't shrink, I do the dishes after I make meals and make sure everything is put away and ready to be in the fridge in container and counters clean before I eat, once I finally do sit down to eat if he asks me for anything I imideatly go get it. I make sure our room is always spotless and take the trash out when it starts to get full and clean our room everyday. I do everything that needs done without him asking or saying anything about it & go get him whatever he asks when he asks. Idk what to do to get shown some apriciation.
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@katlyn_wahl we used to share everything now I mainly do everything
@cillagrace, that's not how its suppose to work its suppose to be equal partnership. if you do everything for a man they will never give you respect. my husband while living with my mom got everything handed to him now that we moved out its equal chores not just a "wife" duty. he helps bitches about it and I ignore him. cause I'm not going to be cleaning up after an adult child. that's just me
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
He told me he was going to clean the dining room two months ago. It's finally getting cleaned
Does your SO ever notice?!?
Does your SO/DH notice when u do things around the house?!?! I ask because I dropped the kids off at school this am then spent about 3 of my 4 free hours cleaning the entire downstairs. Living room, dining room, powder room and kitchen. Like scrubbed counters, toilets moved couches vacuumed and mopped everything. My house was sparkling clean when he got home and didn't even notice!!! Like wtf I just spent hours cleaning u would think he would at least notice but no w...
I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go.
I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean 2 rooms and take care of her kids and doesn't understand why her mother in law bitches about why it's not done everyday.
Uhm okay. Let me tell you why. You don't anything. Your husband works all day while you sit at home and complain about working and cleaning TWO ROOMS and yet you want a HOUSE.
As a stay at home mom and pregnant, supposed to be "taking it easy" I clean a ro...
He definitely should be appreciating you. It's gonna end up really getting to you and you're gonna resent him. Have you talked to him about it?