Is it bad that I would kind of like some recognition from my boyfriend this Mother's Day? I've had a hell of a time carrying our daughter and she'll be here on Father's Day, I had plans on getting him something...
This is NOT happening !!!!!!! I swear I had given up! But I'm 5 days late and I just got my BFP ???
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
This day will always be the best day of my life. It's the day I gave birth to the most beautiful, precious little girl the world has ever had.
LADIES !!!!! IM IN SHOCK!!!! so my period showed up a day earlier than expected, as you know I took those two blue dyes, both had a faint positive. Well the next day, I tested with a FRER and a Walmart 88 cent test and both were very very negative. Then I had a temp drop below coverline. AF showed the following day, a day early. I just knew i was out !! Well, yesterday I was sick as hell when I woke up, i get to work, and discover that my boobs are very sore as i ran into a wall coming around the corner, lol.. i NEVER get sore breasts or nauseated during my period.. EVER !!! Something told me to take a pregnancy test although I had been bleeding for 3 days at this point. Today makes 4 !!! Still bleeding, and even had clotting!! To my surprise, myy test was positive !!!! I tested again this morning, and it's even darker !!!! How is this even possible.. I dont know what's going on, I'm in total disbelief right now!!! 10dpo, my FRER was negative, no hint of a line at all!!! Here I am, 14dpo, bleeding for 4 days now, with a positive test that keeps getting darker !!! Looking at my chart it looks like baby implanted on the same exact day AF was actually due, although it showed a day early!! I took my period off of my chart so you ladies could see my chart as a whole, but my period started on cd32, the last day of the big temp drop.. now the temps are back up !!! The test I took yesterday evening is the dried one.. its yellow tinted as it's old . The other is from this morning , first morning urine !!
I FINALLY had an "I feel pretty day" about damn time!!! ?
emily·
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Girl he should definitely be giving you some recognition, absolutely
Shaylee Simmons·
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@emkasting, that makes me feel better I didn't know if I was just being selfish
emily·
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no absolutely not! You're carrying his child for gosh sakes, it's a lot harder work than I think any man could ever fathom. I'm sure you also do a lot for him. I'm sorry he's not making you feel as special as you are today
Shaylee Simmons·
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@emkasting, it's not just him it's several people, I just made a new post about it because I'm getting really butthurt lol. I've had to go through so much shit with this pregnancy to make sure my daughter will be okay and I'll be okay...I've lost almost all of my vision due to an eye condition caused by my pregnancy and I may not be able to have any pain medication during labor because of it, and yet people are acting like I'm not a real mom because I haven't pushed her out yet. It's upsetting. Maybe I'm just overly hormonal idk.
emily·
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You ARE a real mom. I know what you mean, people thinking we aren't mothers yet because our babies aren't here yet. But it's clear that you've already made sacrifices for your baby, as have I. You've gone through a lot during your pregnancy and you really deserve some support. For real.
Shaylee Simmons·
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@emkasting, I really appreciate you talking to me about it and supporting me it makes me feel a lot better...and I just looked at your profile, your little one should be here soon! That's exciting!
emily·
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No problem! It makes me really sad to see anyone upset or not feeling supported. I know what it's like to not be supported by certain family members, too. But yess he is due in 6 days, but not showing any signs at all that he wants to make an appearance haha