Boyfriend went off...literally was in my face...to bad for him I don't back down and I got in his face right back at him...I left and prob won't be coming home anytime soon
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
So hubby played a nasty April fool's joke on me. He acted like baby was in the carseat and dropped it. today I finally got him back . He was laying in bed watching a video and I was "still sleeping" I started acting like I was having a seizure his face was priceless. I have no idea how we are still together after all the cruel things we do to each other 😂
I Cried like a baby leaving Kannon in the nicu. 😔 I did not want to give him back.
Hailey·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Good for you for standing up !!!
Hailey·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
If you need anything inbox me I'm here to talk !
Paige Rue·
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@haileyjane03, thank you I appreciate it (:
Mimi·
Yasss
emily·
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Good you stood your ground and got right back in his face! I hope everything is ok!
Paige Rue·
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@emkasting, he's been on a emotional roller coaster and has been taking it out on me and I said something that made him snap but I left because I don't need that and hopefully make him thinks he keeps texting and calling me but I'm not answering I'm fine! Just freaked me out how he got in my face and I'm shocked I got right back in his face...just still in shocked
emily·
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I totally understand. I know it can be scary when someone gets in your face especially a guy and a loved one at that. Do you have somewhere safe to stay tonight?
Paige Rue·
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@emkasting, yeah I'm staying at my moms she understands! And said I did the right thing and just need to let things cool off before even talking
emily·
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I totally agree :)
Paige Rue·
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@emkasting, don't care what age I am but going to my mom and cuddling up to her is the best thing ever ☺️
emily·
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I'm right there with you, I don't think we're ever too old for that ☺️