May I have you ladies advice? For those who remember, a few months ago, I was supposed to adopt a baby from my pregnant "friend". I was at every doctor's appointment, told you all everything; including when we were in front of a family court judge and she decided to change her mind (baby daddy was shocked as well). She gave birth yesterday (induced) to a beautiful baby boy at 37 weeks. She was high risk and I learned he may need heart surgery. I want to reach out to her (we haven't spoken since that day) yet I'm afraid to re-enter her life. I mean, that was supposed to be my son after all 😢 what do you think?