May I have you ladies advice? For those who remember, a few months ago, I was supposed to adopt a baby from my pregnant "friend". I was at every doctor's appointment, told you all everything; including when we were in front of a family court judge and she decided to change her mind (baby daddy was shocked as well). She gave birth yesterday (induced) to a beautiful baby boy at 37 weeks. She was high risk and I learned he may need heart surgery. I want to reach out to her (we haven't spoken since that day) yet I'm afraid to re-enter her life. I mean, that was supposed to be my son after all 😢 what do you think?
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Pray about it ... Just be like hey I saw what was going on blah blah blah I'm here if you need me if little man need anything etc then work your way on to meeting up w her like out to eat or for coffee whatever & work your way into that baby's life.
@hale16 how do you suggest I go about it? I don't want to overwhelm her but I want her to know I'll do my best to be a shoulder for her. Regardless of what happened, I still care about that baby. I even have his ultrasounds 💔
No I understand that too. Maybe you can try reaching out to her and see what she has to say it wouldn't hurt since you guys were already friends
She's going to need that support I'm telling you because I've watched moms go thru the "heart procedures" w their child be there for the child if you can't be there for her. Tell her how you feel when the time is right & that you would like to be there for the baby & her if you want! Please reach out to her for the baby's sake
@lovelybee I understand but to know the little guy may have to have heart surgery is so heartbreaking...he's in nicu according to her updates on facebook
I think she should of been more before letting you getting your hopes up. But I think she's being distant Bc she doesn't want you getting attached forward to that child . That she wants to raise herself now sorry that you went threw that btw!
Tell her what you just told me you never stopped caring about her or baby you still feel the same you just gave her her distance