So I go upstairs to see that my mom has set the formal dining area with mothers day stuff and has it all cute. I go to put my grandma and mom gift on the table and my aunt says "cute huh? tomorrow isn't your day yet, but next year right?" Excuse me? First off I know I'm a mother to be and not a mother just yet but damn that was an unnecessary comment if you ask me. Mind you she didnt say it in a rude way but still it made me feel some kind of way like she stating the obvious. I'm not even expecting shit tomorrow from no one so yea it was just irrelevant and put me in my feelings a lil bit.
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@heera, I wanted to so bad but I brushed it off cause she old af (ny great aunt) and she just doesnt have any couth so whatever
My hubbys the only one that celebrates Mother's Day for me and I'll do the same for him next month and we've been doing this since we lost our first in 2014 but I'm glad you mom at least said something.
i agree eith the momment you concieve your a mom because you already make major sacrifices to make sure your baby is okay.
@babybrown1019, @heera @jasholbert @jujulove13 @rylannsmommy2016 @tortor4894 , thank everyone. it just had me in my feelings a lil bit cause she kept carrying on, talking bout she brought stuff to make my mom and grandma brunch tomorrow and she guess for me too then laughed um not funny wtf...my mom came in the kitchen as she was saying it and was like she's a mother she's just carrying her baby on the inside right now..that made me feel better. I wanted to be petty so bad and say so do u get brunch and a gift too even tho u gave all 3 of your kids away? but I kept it cute n just walked back downstairs
You are a mother carrying the most precious cargo ever! Your baby is here, its just not born yet!!! Its alive and moving, hears your voice and knows you love it!!!
the moment you concieve your a mother....dont let anyone tell you otherwise...still seems like a rude comment to me.....
My family is the same way, it was especially worse last year after my miscarriages when they said I wasn't a mother. Ignore them because parenthood begins at birth but motherhood begins at conception because that's when you start giving up things and doing for your baby and thinking like a mother.
i would be upset also :/ babygirl you are a mom your carrying your child inside you so definitely does count
Your a mother as soon as that baby is made in my opinion
@jaycemommy i would have said it..