I agree

u don't even have to give up life for 9 months u just can't drink or do drugs I still hang out with friends and stay out but I still come home and get up at 6 mon-fri amd work to me it's wrong cause I coukdnt go threw it but I wouldn't judge unless it was like oh ingot pregnant amd had an abortion just cause me amd the father didn't agree on yada da

@mommawabbit, exactly, if it's not a health reason (physical or severe emotional) then I personally don't feel that it's right, but to each is own because at the end of they day they have to answer to themselves and whatever higher powers (if they believe in one) and deal with the lasting effects and don't need people jumping down their throats making them feel bad. I have a relative that'd get pregnant left and right and then turn around and have an abortion and then lie and say she miscarried multiple times, she's only kept 3 of her children, and there's no real reason that she couldn't carry the children other than she wanted to keep living her life the way it was and doing whatever she felt like, I never judged her for it but I also didn't think it was right especially when you have options like adoption and you only have to give up your life for a simple 9 months and then you can go back to doing whatever you please once you heal.

@mommawabbit, fair enough

@sparklymama, no its not the only option I had posted previously on tbis but it's still a option to consider

you're not alone at all @brittneylove and no sorry adoption isn't the only option for people its not that simple ladies... move around with your close minded thinking

exactly and if they can't xare for them adoption give to a family who so badly wants a kid but can't have one of there own

I agree with you 100%. It may not be the right choice for everyone, but nobody knows a person's reasoning behind making such a decision and nobody should feel like they're better than someone else and shame them or judge them for that. It's personally something I'd never do, and I do think that there are other options that'd be better in some cases (for example if someone's just being selfish and doesn't want to be pregnant because they don't want to give up partying and drinking or using drugs or something really silly like that I personally think that that's wrong, but I'd never shame or judge them for doing so), but I'd never make someone feel terrible for making that decision no matter if I agree with it or not.

I do not believe it should be a form of birth control either... that said... I believe everyone can make their own decisions based on their own situations

I don't agree with it the only time I agree with is is if it's medical and threatening the mothers life if u were raped etc but tp me If u can open ur legs and create it u can take care of it but it's there desicioms and there may be circumstances why they are doing it

@brittneylove, you're right no one has the right to shame other women. BUT I do not agree with women who use it as birth control, it's unethical! I know some woman who have had several! Seriously, there are so many other options for birth control.

I feel the exact same way. No one should be judged for any decision they make. Abortion wouldn't be my choice but I would never look down on someone who had to make that choice for themselve... Unless it's like her 4th or 5th one then I'd be like come on bitch you know how babies are made 😂

I agree..You have to do what's best for you..Can't judge anyone for their decision.

I am pro choice and always will be. Luckily I have never had to make a decision either way because I have been careful with birth control and this is my 1st pregnancy, which was planned.