so my husband and i have decided to get a divorce. we have been togther a little over 5 years. hes…

Hopefully things get better for You guys

what's the reason if you don't mind my asking? that's hard to deal with while expecting.

from the way you have talked about him, he seems wonderful.

nothing is ever good enough for him, he is constantly putting me down and making me feel miserable. im just so unhappy and he refuses any sort of counseling to try and fix our problems. @lakilucid

he called you beautiful. my hubby won't even do that much. marriage takes a lot of hard work and pregnancy makes it harder with stress and hormones. I really hope you guys reconsider. it breaks my heart to see divorce during pregnancy. I nearly went down that road with my hubby. we separated for 8 months and realised how stupid we were being and chose to save our family. sending positive energy your way.

I think you should give it a little time at least until after the baby is here maybe you guys will both have a change of heart. If you dont want to wait you can go to the court house and pick up the divorce papers and fill them out yourself.its expensive to file them unless you qualify for a fee waiver. @nebanks1226

yeah we have our good times but the bad really out weigh the good. its been like this for almost 6 months now. i dont want a divorce but i cant stand being this unhappy and he said if we seperate were getting a divorce. ive literally suggested everything to try and help fox our problems and he turns them down. @lakilucid @rhia

i know it sucks!! I got a divorce afte being with my kids dad for 14 years. you only get one life so dont spend it being unhappy and miserable @nebanks1226

I would talk to him more. pregnancy and deployment are very major life changes that can make people act very strangely and not themselves.

is your marriage not worth fighting over like he is for this country? I would ask him that. why put you through the pains of pregnancy and why bless him with a child if he's going to give up. I'm sure he's probably very stressed.