So I don't normally rant on here, but I'm honestly at wits end. I've dealt with my whole life my dad's side of the family not liking me, it's now being projected onto my daughter and I feel she is gonna get left out of things just as I was, and I just want to spare her all of that and just not go around them. It honestly hurts seeing my cousins and my own siblings with them, and they want nothing to do with me. And it's not even anything I did. Well, I've been with my fiancé for three years now. When we first got together, his ex was telling everyone that I was on drugs and that I was dragging him down with me when it wasn't true. She went as far as telling his family who still to this day believe her over me and my fiancé. We now have a 15 month old daughter together. His mom only met her yesterday. His sister has only seen her twice. I was the bigger person yesterday and let him take our daughter into his granny's house cuz she is dying and I didn't want him having any regrets. Keep in mind they won't let me in the house. I just don't know what to do anymore about feeling this way. I'm not who they think I am and they won't even give me a chance, even though we are getting married and I brought his daughter into this world. I just don't know... I feel seriously unappreciated.
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its okay yeah well unfortunately its probably going to take him stepping his foot down and staying he wont have any contact with them if they dont listen to the truth that his ex is and ex for a reason
I had originally said that my daughter wouldn't step foot in that house without me, but with his granny dying and them not knowing how much longer she has, I decided to let him take her on so he didn't have to live with that regret
He's been trying to get them to believe the fact that his ex was lying to them since it started happening. I feel like when we have our wedding, it's gonna be very small because nobody wants anything to do with me and it's honestly breaking my heart
your husband also needs to stand up more for you guys
Stand up for your self put your foot down do not allow them to bully you or your child
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
my baby daddy's ex wife works at the hospital I'm having my daughter she is just a cleaning lady she tell me they let her move the babies around I'm scared this women will take my baby she even tells me if I have my baby early she could see her ever day .. my doctor only delivers at this hospital I don't know what to do . this is why I don't want to have my baby early ..
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
@mom13 that's the thing I don't think it bothers them. My daughter was nearly a year old before he started talking to them again and that when the found out his granny had cancer