How do girls do it? How are you okay with your child having a step mom or the dads girlfriend? What if your child calls…
How do girls do it? How are you okay with your child having a step mom or the dads girlfriend? What if your child calls that girl 'mom' first or the child likes that girl more? I don't understand. He doesn't have a girlfriend yet. But it could happen someday. And he said if the day came to it he'd be okay if Letty had a step dad. But I wouldn't be okay with Letty having a step mom.
Lauren·
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@camrynnsmommy, I would kill a bitch. No lie. I may move on one day. But I'll always love him. Because you can't ever forget your first love.
Sarah Deeks·
Мама двоих (4 года, 46 лет)
my daughters dad has a gf. sad thing is she was my best friend till I caught him cheating on me with her
Lauren·
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@amysmommy, I am. I'm heartbroken everyday.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
My step kids call me mom but that's only because their mom is a meth head an doesn't come around. It drives her nuts tho when her oldest calls me mom and actually yells at her and tells her that its disrespectful to call your mother by her first name and threatens to whip her and I'm just like bitch you left two years ago don't expect her to call u mom u don't deserve it! But this is probably not your situation seeing as you do not look like a meth head lol. This probably was of no help but if it was, glad to help. Lol
Sarah·
my daughter isnt here yet but I wouldn't be okay with it... I totally understand where your coming from. I'd be so sad.
Kim·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (17 нед.)
have you told him that it's nothing against him but you don't want her around your child because of the threats? a newborn can't tell you if they've been hurt by someone. I was going to say something different but read your comments and if there comes a time when you find someone and he does as well I would say don't introduce them to your child for 6+months. know that it's serious and that they're there to be around possibly for life and is that someone you can trust with your child, etc.
boymomplusagirl·
It is hard to accept that someone can step into the role of "mom" when you aren't there. I have had a hard time, but now that my boys are a little older, I am grateful that they have more people who love and care about them. I have to have a relationship with their 'stepmom' or I wouldn't be comfortable with it at all.
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
Completely understandable, but unfortunately just one of those things that will eventually happen if you're not together. Your child will always know that you're mom and no one can take your place, no matter how great the other woman is
marissa·
Yea my fiancé knows I'd probably end a female trying to play mommy to my kiddos
Amber·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (31 нед.)
@81516mommy2be, Oh yeah that would def make me mad I would not trust her
deleted-user·
@amberino, I know, but this girl he's with is making him deny is child, and treating him like shit even though he's not born yet and threatens me. Really not someone who I want to be a mother to my child, if you know what I mean.
Amber·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (31 нед.)
Yeah it's tough
Lauren·
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@amberino, it's just one of those what if situations. But. I don't know what will happen
Amber·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (31 нед.)
it's just one of those things you have to learn to accept bc y'all aren't together so y'all both deserve to be happy, I use to be the same way
Lauren·
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@81516mommy2be, I could go on and on. Because I love him. And I never want him to be with someone else. He still comes and sees me sometimes. It just sucks because we can't be together right now.
deleted-user·
@lbedell95, you're not alone, I'm not okay with it. baby's dad has a gf, and I told my friend that idc if they get married, but she will never be a mother to my child ever.