I don't know what to feel!! what would you mommas do if your best friend that is a male and told you that they are happy for you for having a baby. just not excited about it because it should have been his baby you where having!! and the thing is, is yes I dated him back in 02 things didn't work out. I was madly in love with him! still am till this day but I am married to a great person but he just isn't doing it for me anymore! and well I Won't lie I have been sleeping with my best friend and now he wants me to have his baby after I have my son!! he says he loves me but I really DON'T know.
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@kaisynsmummie8716, Check your grass. You may not be in love with your husband but people fall in and out of love during a marriage the key is to check in and figure out where you are weak. Let your husband know whats going on and give him the option to help fix it or leave. Your "friend" is a crutch and needs to go, you may think the grass is greener over there but there is a reason that he is your "friend" and not your husband. Speaking from experience I was broken and no man can fix that.
I know i am not a good person to do this to him and I do plan on coming clean with him! I just told my friend I couldn't do this anymore.
hate to sound harsh but you do not sound like a good person... as everyone else said... divorce is your option unless you come clean to your husband and he forgives you and decided to stay with you. I think he deserves better than that tho. so sad
it's not fair to your husband. And I'd ask why is your friend just now waiting to tell you this after you are pregnant but telling you not to leave your husband. I'd leave him too! how are you supposed to have his baby after..... Good luck mama
You obviously don't love your husband if you are cheating on him. sorry to put this harshly but you are selfish and should give your husband a divorce, nobody deserves to be cheated on!
I just have mixed emotions about all this! because yes I do love my husband i am not in love!
you also do not want to teach your children that it's okay to be deceptive and hurt someone by cheating... I think it's time to leave both these men alone and figure out where you stand as an individual
that's what I tried to talk to him (my friend) last night and he was like you can't do that to him and the baby. I grew up in a broken home and I don't really want kaisyn to grow up that way!
Divorce. It's absolutely not fair to your husband. What would you want if the roles were reversed?
I would be getting a divorce then since you aren't happy with your husband
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do
I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and a...
Hello I am knew here. Im looking to make some new friends on here. My sister told me about her experience and meeting a new friend whom she feels like she has known forever. I am married and I work from home. I am also a college student. I have two boys and they are the best.
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Next child
Speaking to my partner tonight about having our next child i ideally don't want another for a few years yet but he turned around and said only on one condition you have a c section ( i got a 3rd degree tear with Oliver) I actually don't want a c section but he said he won't have another child otherwise am I being unfair ? I loved my birth with Oliver i loved that feeling him being placed on me, but he said if I don't have a c section the next baby won't be with him :(
@kaisynsmummie8716, I truly hope everything works out for you and your family.