I don't know what to feel!! what would you mommas do if your best friend that is a male and told you that they are happy for you for having a baby. just not excited about it because it should have been his baby you where having!! and the thing is, is yes I dated him back in 02 things didn't work out. I was madly in love with him! still am till this day but I am married to a great person but he just isn't doing it for me anymore! and well I Won't lie I have been sleeping with my best friend and now he wants me to have his baby after I have my son!! he says he loves me but I really DON'T know.
@kaisynsmummie8716, Check your grass. You may not be in love with your husband but people fall in and out of love during a marriage the key is to check in and figure out where you are weak. Let your husband know whats going on and give him the option to help fix it or leave. Your "friend" is a crutch and needs to go, you may think the grass is greener over there but there is a reason that he is your "friend" and not your husband. Speaking from experience I was broken and no man can fix that.
I know i am not a good person to do this to him and I do plan on coming clean with him! I just told my friend I couldn't do this anymore.
hate to sound harsh but you do not sound like a good person... as everyone else said... divorce is your option unless you come clean to your husband and he forgives you and decided to stay with you. I think he deserves better than that tho. so sad
it's not fair to your husband. And I'd ask why is your friend just now waiting to tell you this after you are pregnant but telling you not to leave your husband. I'd leave him too! how are you supposed to have his baby after..... Good luck mama
You obviously don't love your husband if you are cheating on him. sorry to put this harshly but you are selfish and should give your husband a divorce, nobody deserves to be cheated on!
I just have mixed emotions about all this! because yes I do love my husband i am not in love!
you also do not want to teach your children that it's okay to be deceptive and hurt someone by cheating... I think it's time to leave both these men alone and figure out where you stand as an individual
that's what I tried to talk to him (my friend) last night and he was like you can't do that to him and the baby. I grew up in a broken home and I don't really want kaisyn to grow up that way!
Divorce. It's absolutely not fair to your husband. What would you want if the roles were reversed?
I would be getting a divorce then since you aren't happy with your husband
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his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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@kaisynsmummie8716, I truly hope everything works out for you and your family.