So I just found out that my ex fiance never cared about me being pregnant. It's really hurtful that I loved this man for a year and he belittled me and down talked me since we found out I was. So after two weeks of being separated I started dating this new guy. He was pissed but I didn't care BC I left him for a good reason. Which he doesn't see. I cannot go anywhere with my mom or bf without him calling or asking me if he could see me. At this point im scared for me and my son's safety when he's born in September. Due to the fact he has put hands on a women before and he didn't tell me about it until it happened to me. He wants to sit there and tell me lies just to get me back he won't stop telling people that we took a break or that he's trying to get me back. Im not sure what to do at this point. I'm only 21 weeks and telling him he cannot be around me isn't even working or him messaging me either. I'm at my breaking point and scared any advice on what I should do?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Rant
My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Tell him to stop contacting you. And get a restraining order against him, If he tries contact in you telling you he wants to see you, save the messages