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C section moms when does the pain stop 😔😔😔😩
Regardless of how you deliver your baby, C-section or vaginal, you are still a mother. Too many people have misconceptions about C-section moms. Some is unintentional but many of these uninformed comments can be quite offensive and hurtful. And they are completely missing the fact, that the most important thing is that both the mom and baby are healthy and happy.👶🏽 Here are six things you should not say to a C-section mom. 1 ⃣ “Too bad you couldn’t have a normal birth.” Many cesareans are performed because of health concers or in emergencies to ensure the health of the baby, mom or both. But it doesn’t matter. There should be no shame or regret over the C-section. 2 ⃣ “A cesarean is way easier than a vaginal birth.” It’s major abdominal surgery and many moms have gone through hours of labor and pushing before the C-section. Postpartum after a cesarean is not easier or better. It’s different and both should be honored. 3 ⃣ “A c-section is an awful experience.” Why put the spotlight on negatives? Many women with twins or preeclampsia, understand in advance they may have cesareans. Let’s focus on the blessing of birth and baby. 4 ⃣ “Sorry you missed out on giving birth.” Please no more mom shaming. #noshame 5 ⃣ “You’re lucky you had a c-section…” Having a baby is an intense journey for any mom. It’s not lucky or better. A C-section is one way of giving birth, but the outcome is the same. You get your beautiful baby in your arms. 6 ⃣ “You’ll never have a regular birth next time.” Approximately 60 to 80% of women are able to have a vaginal birth after c-section or VBAC. Each pregnancy and delivery is unique, and we should celebrate moms. Stop the mom shaming and the insensitive comments! Did you have a c-section? Share your story in the comments below 💕
Vaginal labor is so easy I would rather take the contractions any day than to have to have a c section
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@aburch1527, I can't believe someone would ever say something so unbelievably rude!!! wow! I'm so sorry that happened to you :'( ignorant ppl smh.
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
awww! you're welcome. I feel the same way about so many of the women on preggie :) I'm so grateful that I found this app!! I didn't have anything like this with my first 3 and I definitely am enjoying this pregnancy a lot more being able to share things with other mommies and soon to be mommies!
Vanessa·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@aburch1527, @michellevaldez4750 @surprise4 @Kiml7613 thank you for being amazing positive mommies and grateful to have met you ladies it's like why not stand in support in one another as women and as moms seriously all week I have seen dreadful comments about c sections and honestly I'm grateful to carry my babies and want them here no matter what and if cutting me up to see them well so be it c sections take longer recovery but isn't a horrible thing and this is my fourth baby after my loss I'm so grateful but it's discouraging these women what needs to stop I support all mommy regardless of how their child was brought to the world and stay bless ladies thank you for you guys opening up
Kim·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (16 нед.)
I have been told by my sister in law and my brother in law baby momma that "I took the easy way out being medically induced with my son at 40 weeks, that I don't know what labor feels like. Excuse me! I was induced for 49hrs 51 mins before my son came into the world. medically induced labor is painful. natural birth I don't think they hook you up to a pitocin drip that'll make you contract while contracting already. then the Dr wanted a c section and I said I'd like to do vaginal if possible. we did, but the Dr said she should've went with her better judgement and did a csection because of the induction process taking as long as is had, and the fact my son had never dropped down at all he was still high and center at 40 weeks, so we had to use a vaccuum during deliver to force him downward and forceps and she cut me for more room. I didn't hurt afterward like everyone said I would for 2 weeks. I was up walking the next morning just fine. so I support childbirth no matter what a woman put her body/life on the line to give the baby life.
Tee·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
There is absolutely nothing positive about C sections on the Internet, so for women who haven't been through it or know someone who has been through it Dr. Google is were a lot of their notions come from. This will be my fourth and I am so glad that the people in my life aren't ignorant.
Michelle Valdez·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I've never heard anyone judge. I've seen women who were disappointed that they had to have one. my cousin had a really hard time bonding with her daughter the first few weeks because she had to have one but fortunately she got over that feeling and is a great mom!
Ally·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I was told that I'm not as much of a mother cuz I didn't go into labor and actually give birth.
Vanessa·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@jennatess, your an amazing mom it's hurtful when we as moms do whatever it takes to have a healthy baby how we bring them makes us less than anyone I support all moms but c sections are not away to take a easy way out
jenna tess·
Мама дочки-младенца
My c.section was easily the worst pain of my life. If having one made me less of a "mom", that's fine, because I had to do what I had to do to save my daughters life (and my own for that matter!).