its sooo annoying when people say im going over board on my baby shower (there will be like 80-90 people there) its my first baby i want everybody there im not going over board... i also did it to not leave any family out and be nice. and for people to think that its "odd" to help my mom throw my baby shower , like whats wrong with that? people keep saying arent your friends suppose to do it. like what FRIENDS? lol my mom is my only friend i trust besides my boyfriend to make sure everything goes smoothly with the baby shower instead of saying your going to throw me one and end up bailing on me just like my sister in law did when she said she was going to help she pitched in $20 and bought me my $25 dress thats all which im thankful for but noo! im better off allowing my mom to throw it and me help out.