I told my friend my mom wants to throw me a baby shower and write on the invite "monetary gifts only" and he told me that people aren't trying to pay for my "gas bill" I'm offended because a lot of money goes into a baby shower, and if you're gonna give me a 10$ blanket from Ross that I probably won't even use it's a waste. I rather use those 10$ for my honest company diaper subscription.
So I’m not a fan of my fiancé’s family. I want you all opinion on what you would do. His family wants to throw me a baby shower. Yet they haven’t invited any of my family and friends and none of my fiancé’s friends. My fiancé and his niece haven’t spoke since May since I got into an argument with her and supposedly this baby shower is her idea. Would you go to a baby shower that no one you know or friends and family won’t be apart of? Would you just not show up? My fiancé has already voiced his concerns and they were ignored. I’m thinking about not even going.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤
Baby shower Rant !!! So everybody wants to give me a hard time about the NO KIDS RULE at my baby shower . My shower is over 100 people what are your kids going to be doing because its adult games no kids activities and are you paying for all 3 of your kids to eat ? Im not even trying to be mean but people are being really crazy over this . Ive been to plenty of baby showers were there was no kids allowed . Same with no men . Than some people have the nerve to be like well so&so; baby is going lol so what thats my immediate family get it ? Immediate which means all their family members will be at my shower so where else would they go and its MY shower i can invite who i want 🙄😤
Debbbbiee❤·
Мама троих детей
no such thing is over for bored celebrate your baby shower as you want it's your baby and it's her first baby so do it as big as you want to fuck with everybody else got to say
Rosa·
Мама дочки-младенца
do what you want girl. I threw my own shower too and invited a shit ton of people. and guess what not even came and we still had a lot of people.
it's not like you're gonna have all those people in the party at once you know? some may leave at different times or come at different times etc. enjoy your shower and screw everyone else!
Kaitlyn·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (29 нед.)
@mareesan, I'm planning my baby shower, no way am I about to let somebody be in charge of it. it's my baby.
mareesa richie·
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@debbiecakez22, exactly im like over board? ive made everything and bought things from dollar tree and even if i blew alot of $$ what is it to everybody else? its my baby mine and my mansmoney and my my moms and my baby shower. it just seems like people are jelous more than anything lol. i was just curious if anybody else planned theirs too @wildflower16 you are right! I rented a big room that has a big porch with like 20 tables outside and 20 inside each can sit 5-6 people, and i will i am super excited 😍😍 @6155teenmom right because some will bail on you i know i wont bail on myself and i know my mom wont thats why i wanted to help her plan it. thank yall💞💞
Yladrea N. Drummond·
Im having around that many people too. My mom chose tho throw it for me and didn't want help because people are flaky. I don't think you are going over board! It's my first child too and I'm going to make it special.
mareesa richie·
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exactly!!! idk why people have to hate on me saying is it really nesicarry to have maternity pics a 3d 4d sonogram a big baby shower etc.. why is ur mom throwing it I thought the tradition was for friends too, or why are u helping etc. like mind your dang business i do what i want lol. @ynm1990 i hope your baby shower is special you deserve it💞
Chante·
I planned my own baby shower my hubby helped, and all his family showed up. And it turned out nice. Forget what they're saying lol!
Yladrea N. Drummond·
@mareesan, lol yea I had a gender reveal party and I am doing a maternity shoot etc I'm going all out lol. I hope yours is special too girl 😍
mareesa richie·
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i had a gender reveal party too lol thats when i found out who my real friends are only 2 showed up and said what does it matter anyways we where all going to find out your having a girl anyways big whoop. i was like oh really!! lol. alot of people that didnt show up to that got taken off my baby shower list like a good 10 people lol. @ynm1990 lol im glad your going all out too!
mareesa richie·
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@chantebrandon, it only bugs me because it's everyday i get asked like dont worry about whats in my pocket worry about urself lol
Shelsy·
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they're just probably jealous. it's not like every single person you invited will go, and if they do props to you because I've never seen that lol. it's your baby shower doesn't matter me and my husband planed our own. it's yalls money so other people shouldn't be worried, we just went to dollar tree and just bought stuff 😂 cheaper and doesn't really matter. if they have a problem with the way you're doing things then they don't even need to show up, a lot of moms goes all out for stuff like this
Yladrea N. Drummond·
@mareesan, you sound like me. Lol those who didn't show up and didn't send a text saying why they couldn't come. I no longer speak to them. If you truly are my friend you would at least reach out
mareesa richie·
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@shelsynikkol, its my sister in law, and my step grandma who doesnt have kids and didnt want any (anti-babies) my sister in law does seem jelous because i am doing all these things for my daughter that she didnt do.. its not my fault though. my sister inn law had her baby august 2015 and my other sister in law had hers july 2015 so my daughter will be really close in age with their daughters. 1 only having the last name that my daughter will have (sister in law) married into the family. my bf already knows they are trying to compete with us thats just how they are, expecially his sister only wanting his mom and gma to be all about her two kids.. its just crazy!!! but on the bright side my daughter will be the first niece/granddaughter/ great granddaughter and great great/ great niece the first everything. i just dont want my daughter competing with her cousins. and so far everybody is going except like 5 people that are now saying maybe.. and my baby shower is next weekend.
mareesa richie·
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@ynm1990, yess!!! exactly. and the girl who said that was my friend since I was 5 and i was the ONLY one who showed up to her baby shower our junior year.. and when people said they couldnt go but i see on their social medias they where hanging out with other people i just deleted them and took them off the baby shower list, i asked for 1 hour of ur time to spend a special moment with me on finding out the gender of my baby and u bailed on me lol. im hard headed like that 😂😂 alot of old friends get mad because im still with my bf and have been for almost 7 years and they hate that my daughter will have both parents like really yall are so petty and childish.
Shelsy·
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girl just ignore her.🙄 you can't help it that you're having a baby and happens to be close in age with hers. mine is the first grand baby for both of our moms so he's definitely spoiled by the grandmas lol. you just do you and what's good for that baby girl! you enjoy your baby shower you can NEVER have too much stuff.
mareesa richie·
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@shelsynikkol, lol i know i am. im happy with life i tried for my princess for 2 years id be damned if i let someone take my smile away my daughter and bf make me the happiest. and awee when are u due?? and i know i am! i just dont wana settle for less i want to give her everything she needs even if people think its "too" much i can afford it somewhat so why not go ahead and give her everything😍 im so excited for my babyshower!
Yladrea N. Drummond·
@mareesan, envy is a crazy thing. Just have to keep doing things your way
mareesa richie·
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yess it is! and same girl😊😊 we are like a week apart@ynm1990
Yladrea N. Drummond·
@mareesan, that's cool we are in this together 😁
Shelsy·
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sorry I went to bed early and I'm due May 28th so my little man should be making his appearance sometime soon!