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Is it normal to feel depressed & feel like your alone or wanna be alone? I'm a first time mom I'm 24 weeks pregnant and I've been going thru a lot including doctor visits with my OB & Valley children's at first they seen a hole in my sons heart but when I went bk Friday the cardiologist looked and didn't see one, but he did see a decrease of blood from the placenta to the baby and said he can end up a still born so I seen another OB @valley children's and she's been monitoring me she said she would like to take my son out after 25 weeks so we don't chance it, shed rather him be a preemie then lose his life. My next appointment with her is the 25th of may by then I'll be 27 weeks she said she will let me know then what's going to happen, I've been having bad high blood pressure and they had me do the 24 hour pee test to see if I have preclamsia today I get the results from my Original OB, I try not to stress but its scary knowing what a chance I'm taking, I've had 3 miscarriages before this pregnancy is the furthest I've gone, I'm scared and feel so down I burst in tears out of random times what can I do? They have me on strictly bed rest cuhz they also said the baby is positioned he wants to come out already but I need to keep him in longer..😞 I feel so lost
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Totally makes sense. I'm not in the same situation but have been on bed rest/light bed rest since 23 weeks and everyone constantly was trying to tell me to not stress or that as my depression got worse thst it affects my baby but ultimately we can only try to keep those thoughts away so much. Just know you are doing everything you can for you and baby and everything will happen as God intends (not sure if you are religious) but I will be praying for you both. try and keep busy to keep your mind as busy as you can, I know that's easier said than done but worth trying. start a hobby like knitting or coloring or painting, watch alot of netflix. ♡♡♡
@dohmommy2016, thank you everyone keeps telling me not to think or worry but to be honest I know it stresses the baby but how do I not think about it knowing that I'm in such a big situation I don't wanna stress him idk how to deal with this..
It's completely normal to be feeling scared or depressed or overwhelmed. you are gojng through alot. ♡♡♡ I am praying for you and baby!
@dohmommy2016, yes I really understand your situation I thank you for your prayers I'm praying everything goes well for both you & I and our babies, & those in our same situation..your kind words make me know I'm not alone💜