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jana.bear
I let my husband go to the Behemoth concert tonight with his friends... It's the first concert he's gone to without me since we met.
He cheated on his ex wife with a girl he met at a concert so even though I know the circumstances of that relationship were very different then ours - I get uncomfortable.. I don't believe in that "once a cheater always a cheater" when it comes to my hubby. His ex wife is a lesbian and made his life a living miserable hell but he didn't want to leave because of their son and the affair sorta gave him the confidence he needed to move on. But the psycho in me says "he ain't never going to a concert without me."
He really can't afford to cheat on me. I own everything. He would walk away from this relationship with a few trash bags of clothes and that's it. Not even a car. It's all in my name.
I think the hormones are making me crazy... I need this kid to come out. I talked to my mom on the phone for like 2 hours. My mom and I don't even get a long that well. I hate not feeling like myself (not that I enjoy having a rocky relationship with my mother). Anybody else feel like their personality has changed being pregnant?
I'm a lonely preggie this evening...
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jana.bear

@ab, I hate feeling like a crazy person. I basically started my maternity leave just to try to focus on myself and get some damn rest. Hoping if I take things down a notch he might make his grand entrance. My husband finally realized how distressed I am and get me to relax today.

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jana.bear

@ab, I hate feeling like a crazy person. I basically started my maternity leave just to try to focus on myself and get some damn rest. Hoping if I take things down a notch he might make his grand entrance. My husband finally realized how distressed I am and get me to relax today.

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ab

Oh and strangely enough after I had my son for some reason my husband got more affectionate towards me something about men and being more affectionate to their wives while they are pregnant doesn't click lol

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ab

I was the same way my last pregnancy no lie made me crazy and I could actually feel it I always felt like my husband didn't want me and he was going to find someone else after I had my son took me a few weeks to feel sane again! But trust me girl once you have this baby take a few weeks you will feel better! I don't know your husband but I truly don't believe a man who seems in love with his pregnant wife would cheat when his son due here any day and his wife was a awesome enough to allow him to go to a concert even though your about due to have little man! Keep your head up high hon you don't got too much longer your beautiful woman who about to be a mama soon! And your soon you see how much more love you will have with that little man that you won't think about your husband doing that stuff!

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michellevaldez4750

He would be stupid to think he could find better! and its totally normal to think that though considering the way he met the side chick when he was with his wife. jealousy and trust issues are just something that we have to deal with as women. it sucks :( (and before I get someone who wants to point out that they don't get jealous and they trust their man 100% I'm speaking for majority not every single woman)

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butterly234

Well, look at the bright side...even if he were stupid enough to cheat u could still do this on your own very well. Don't stress out.

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zombibaby

@jana.bear, ya I totally get that. my husband has been great tho. he's really trying to make me trust him and lately all he talks about is how me and his daughter are his world. but if you wanna talk more I can give you my number and I can be your go to vent person or just another prego chick to talk too.

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jana.bear

@fifimama, I was mean before. lmao That hasn't changed.

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jana.bear

@zombibaby, well it doesn't help if you're not feeling all that great about yourself.

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zombibaby

I'm kinda the same way. I get scared all the time because of similar issues my husband and I had before we got married. and since I've been prego I feel that I kinda get a lot more paranoid on what he's doing

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fifimama

Even after now they say I'm "mean " like no if I don't like what ur doing around or with my baby I will get mad lol

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