Talked to my BD last night, I would say fiancée but I gave him the ring back, I would say boyfriend but I honestly don't…

My boyfriend did that to me. Turns out he was cheating and was afraid to end it with me because he still loved me. Crappy situation. Men suck sometimes. Hopefully y'all can work it out.

@mamabear9456, yeah I get where you're coming from, and we talked but I know now the issue is going to be with me because I'm not very good at letting things go

I wasn't saying your issues might be the same as mine just that maybe there's a communication issue and he's not telling you something. It all comes down to if you're willing to fight for your relationship or not. Maybe let him know that having a baby doesn't mean that he's gotta turn into an old man, if y'all loved each other enough to get engaged I'm sure it's worth fighting for. Don't give up over yalls first argument. Just my opinion

@mamabear9456, we talked, I don't do any of that, He said he thinks he's having doubts because we're still young, we had our baby (wasn't planned) so everything came at once, he says he loves me, that there is no reason why he shouldn't with me, so what am I suppose to do, sit around and try my hardest to make it work not knowing whether it will be worth it or not in the end

Sorry super long comment

I'm so sorry, I went through this with my man at the beginning of my relationship, we were so perfect never fought, and I was always shocked by that I thought it meant everything was perfect but really he just didn't like communicating with me. He had many issues with things I was doing, smoking, drinking too much, wanting to go clubbing, my friends were crazy, and these were all things I had been doing since day one so how was I supposed to know he wouldn't like it? Anyways, I had to sit outside with him and get mad at him for him to spit out why he was having doubts. I said I can't fix it if idk what's wrong! I begged him to tell me why he wasn't feeling good about me and said I promise I won't cry just tell me how it is! And he finally did. He held my hand and told me everything that made him uncomfortable. Working on our communication was the hardest thing ever and honestly we still have our issues but you'll never fix it if you don't try. You need to tell him to tell you what's wrong. Even if it hurts. And don't make him feel guilty either. Just let him know that whatever it is you want to fix and work on with him together. Maybe he's stressed about the baby? Maybe it's sexual? Who knows but you'll never know until you ask.