Мамлайф
Мамлайф
Приложение для мам
Charlee Gathercole
Charlee Gathercole
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

Ok so I really need some advice. So with my daughter, we had shoulder distotia or however you spell it. It was very…

Ok so I really need some advice. So with my daughter, we had shoulder distotia or however you spell it. It was very minimal and she had no problems with her limbs or anything after. My new doctor said I could try vaginally but that there's a risk for it to happen again. She said the only way she can say I won't is with a c section. What should I do???!!

4

Комментарии

charlee12

Charlee Gathercole

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

Yes. I totally get that. But I just don't want to put my baby at risk. @sarahemccormick

del_1512250114_arivera64

Deleted

I recommend writing a list of pros vs cons of both. I think that the risks of surgery in this situation are higher than risks of maybe having an issue with the shoulder distocia

mommyof3littleones

chanel

Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

whatever you think is safer. I would go with gut feeling.

missing74user

missing74user

It's totally up to you....That's ultimately a decision YOU need to make, and you need to be comfortable with whatever you choose to do. Good luck, sweetie.

I hate my generation sometimes ?

I hate my generation sometimes ? Today was my nieces baby shower, which went great. She got so much which amazing since she's been working 2 jobs trying to save up for the unpaid leave she'll have to take from work. Anyways I was talking to one of the ladies there since my son and her daughter were playing together. I asked her what her daughters name was, she said it was Layla. I told her that's a really pretty name and asked her if she was a Clapton fan and if she was named after the song. This girl had no idea who Eric Clapton is. ? ♀ One of the most iconic songs, and she had no idea. I hate my generation. ?

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.