I honestly cannot believe where my life has come to.
I'm in Japan visiting family I haven't seen in 3 years with my mom and 2 kids. Also 7 months pregnant.
This entire first week I've been gone I've watched our bank account dwindle down to barely anything as my boyfriend has gone out every fucking night blowing all of our rent money at the bar. He hasn't once returned a single phone call I've made or asked about our girls. One of my girls went to the hospital here for a severe eye infection in both eyes and he hasn't once asked how she's doing.
Then I get a phone call from his mom telling me he's been arrested for a DWI. The best part? It's his 4th one. I thought he had 2 prior but I guess one was reduced due to him being wrongfully pulled over and would show up as his 3rd only if he didn't get arrested again for the same charge. But now he has so it'll be his 4th one. Basically looking at prison time I'm sure. I refuse to pay his bail (not like I have the money anyway) and his family has decided
To not help him either but instead help me get on my feet with what I need as far as living, bills, and my kids.
I'm 6,000 miles away from home and I can't even enjoy my vacation because of this bullshit. And now when I get home, I have to deal with this. I could honestly strangle him at this point.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My son is one year old and i want him to go back and get use to sleeping in the crib I put him in the crib and all he does is cry and I spoke to his doctor and his doctor said let him cry like in 2 or 3 days he should get use to sleeping on his own has anyone try it ?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??

My baby boy has me so worried he has such delicate skin. Calling the doctor tomorrow to take him in & get checked out. No matter what lotion I use on his skin he gets like this. Breaks my heart
My boyfriend is so upset that I didn’t give our son his last name but I have 4 other kids that has my last name I didn’t want to make him the only one with a different last name. Is that selfish of me? Or should he just understand. We not married
Wow... I would be livid! I'm sorry you have to go through that