🚨 ADVICE NEEDED 🚨 So my doctor ended up telling me Friday after knowing this whole time I wanted my…
🚨 ADVICE NEEDED 🚨
So my doctor ended up telling me Friday after knowing this whole time I wanted my sister in the room that since she didn't go to birthing classes she wouldn't be allowed in the room. I'm extremely hurt about this but ended up coming up with a different arrangement. Anyways My mom and David will for sure be in the room, I'm allowed 3 people in the room and I want 3 people in the room. I'm debating between my grandma and Davids mom. My grandma doesn't want to see me in pain so she doesn't mind if his mom is in the room but his mom and I have never been close or anything and we just started talking about a month ago after a big fight. She is trying to be there and I can see it but I'm still iffy about it. Anyways I'm leaning more towards letting his mom in the room and we want to ask her tomorrow during dinner. If we choose her we need a cute idea of how to ask her because she brought up to David about a month ago that she was a little hurt that her or Harry (Davids step dad) wasn't allowed in the room so it will be a complete surprise to her. They are taking us to the best Italian restaurant around for dinner tomorrow. Any ideas on how to ask her? I've looked on pinterest and Google and no good ones. Ladies? Help?
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
You can have whomever you want in your room, it's your right. Check the hospitals rules
missing201user·
no ideas. I'm surprised that your doctor is saying who you can or can't have in the room.
Summer·
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@jadestarlight, @babes87101116 apparently the reason why she can't be in is because with her being "so young" she needed to go to birthing classes. I was like I didn't even go to birthing classes so does that mean my boyfriend (her father) and my mom can't be in the room.
missing201user·
I would check the hospitals rules depending on her age
Alexa·
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Wow, how old is she? I watched my mom give birth to two my siblings when I was 11 and 15. My other sisters were there too and they were 7 and 9, then 7 and 11. The doctor never had a problem.
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
No, I'm sorry but that's messed up. Doctors work for YOU. Check your hospitals rules and get a new doctor.
Amanda·
What hospital are you delivering at?
Summer·
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@alexalexa, shell be 13. What pisses me off the most is that they should allow it because it will teach children what can happen the beauty and ugly of having sex yes having a baby is a beautiful thing but so is all the blood, vagina stretching, etc. I know someone who was 12 when she had a baby so if there are kids having baby's it should inspire them to allow her in. @jadestarlight @babes87101116 @yendor678 apparently when I called my doctor they out me on hold and called the hospital to ask them when TEN minutes before this I called and asked he hospital and they said to ask my doctor.
Summer·
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@yendor678, a hospital by my grandma's and she lives in Armstrong county
Alexa·
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That sucks. I'd be pissed. My sister will be at mine and she's 12. Now I feel like I should check with my doctor to make sure he isn't going to pull something.
Summer·
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@alexalexa, I would. My doctor was perfectly fine with it until Friday. I was so mad I even yelled at the nurse on the phone
missing201user·
I'd call and ask to speak to a supervisor an administrator