Look I'm not trying to cause drama but it's MY body and MY baby so don't tell me what I should and shouldn't do...it's MY choice end of story!!!
@babyhenderson2016 that's just wrong, im sorry girl. I've seen how they struggle and can't imagine going through it. I'm glad you're okay and healthy
@hermommy, Absolutely....my child's father his mother adopted a child and the lady did hard drugs while pregnant with him her whole 9 months and when he was born he would just cry cry cry because he got the addiction his birth mother gave to him but now he is 6 and he is a really good kid and smart and get all A's and B's in school but he has a mental behavior where he will throw tantrums and curse and get mad really fast but only at home never at school cause he love school smh some mothers don't understand that it starts with the mother themselves of what they put in they body while pregnant to determine if they will have a halt hey baby
@mfriloux I agree girl, to me of you can't give up alcohol and drugs for the pregnancy don't get pregnant the baby didn't ask for that😧 I've seen babies addicted to it in the NICU when my cousin was in it
@hermommy, I was told that to by my new doctor to just don't do it he brought it up on his own cause I never asked but before I got pregnant I would always go to my sister doc visit with her and her doc told her only red wine every once in a while but starting in the 2nd trimester.....but when you drink it will do harm to the baby just like drugs will but then again every pregnant mothers thinks different
like I said, a girls baby I know died not even one month after birth due to FAS. take your chances I guess, but do whats right for that baby!! to me its selfish that baby cant speak for itself. smh
@mfriloux exactly, to much development but my OB and specialist just say none at all ever to be safw
@hermommy, NO NO NOT AT ALL starting from the second trimester the first trimester is very risky to do any drinking I don't drink or smoke even without being pregnant but to each is own.
Now I was told that it's ok for a pregnant woman to have 1 glass of Red Wine🍷here and there but not 2 glasses or any little hard alcohol drink
And when your baby is hurt by you drinking, please don't come to us because, well we warned you. @hermommy @graciesmama
my doctor never told me to drink she simply said that if I was going to that I need to do it safely and to have no more than a small drink or 2
this girl I know had her baby die due to drinking while pregnant, its not even something to mess with.. and I've NEVER heard a doctor tell you to drink, to each their own I guess. I'd get a new doctor.
@londonsmommy16 its not FAS but you do you, just don't tell others to do something dangerous and lose the attitude, no one is being rude to you we are informing you.
look I was told it's ok by more than 1 doctor...the exact same thing that a small drink or 2 is ok and my doctor I have known for a very long time and she has never been wrong so thank you and goodbye @hermommy
@hermommy, it's another one of those pages.. Anyone who drinks more than a glass of wine here & there is flat out selfish.. That is not okay.. Poor kid..