ladies I need your help. I plan to get a divorce from my husband. I am worried about custody though. we have one baby…
ladies I need your help. I plan to get a divorce from my husband. I am worried about custody though. we have one baby together who is 3 weeks old and I breastfeed. my husband does not have a job, car, or a place of his own. he either stays with his siter, cousin, or friends.... my husband is irresponsible. he had a good job with the union and lost it because he wasn't doing what he was supposed to. he rolled his parents suburban which they let him use to see me and the baby in the hospital but instead he was with his friends. when he rolled it that's when he got kicked out. will the judge give him visitation without me there? I'm worried because the baby is so young and I breastfeed. I don't want the baby alone without me. he doesn't even know his dad. and hasn't been away from me since he was born. I want a divorce but am scared of having to leave my child alone with his father even if it is for an hour
Nicole morse·
Мама четверых детей
@puffball, you have to do what needs to be done even though it could be hard and hurtful but your doing exactly what's right for you and your Son stay strong prayers things go in your favor 🙏🏻
lauren·
Мама сына-младенца
thank you all so much :) @reaganmommy2015 @aydensmommy2016 @morse2016 I need this divorce to move on and show him I'm not playing around. he has just used me over and over and I'm tired of it. I'm trying to better my life
Martee 💋💋·
Мама троих детей
Usually the give primary custody to the mother. He will need to prove himself to be a better parent then you to get custody of the baby but it sounds like that won't be happening. I would keep track of everything he did just to be on the safe side
rosita warn·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)
Yay I'm pretty sure that with his tract record no judge would give him any kind of visitaion until his life is in order...and with how it sounds it will be a while.
Nicole morse·
Мама четверых детей
@puffball, they will not allow him to visit with out adult supervision you could even request in through the courts so you know he will be safe
lauren·
Мама сына-младенца
thank you that makes me feel better! @aydensmommy2016 even his own mom is saying she wouldn't trust him alone with the baby
rosita warn·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)
Usually they won't allow him visitations with out a mother or socal worker with the child...I'm only guessing but since he is so young and breastfeeding they might not even let him until he gets his life in order first to prove he can handle it...like first get a place to live and a stable job otherwise I'm sure you wouldn't have a problem with it or him
lauren·
Мама сына-младенца
yeah. I finally realized that I need to move on and to stop thinking he will change. I'm 19 and he is 23 and I'm more mature than he is. I worked all the way up till my date and I will now go back to school and take online classes. and he is doing nothing @annasaurlove
lauren·
Мама сына-младенца
yeah. I finally realized that I need to move on and to stop thinking he will change. I'm 19 and he is 23 and I'm more mature than he is. I worked all the way up till my date and I will now go back to school and take online classes. and he is doing nothing
Anna Rivera·
I am not close to your situation. I am an 18 year old girl who is now pregnant by an abusive guy I had to leave two weeks ago with family because I scared for my life. but in one way we are the same I was scared that my son going to grow up with out a dad. sometimes it's better do to because our kids will be more Happy when it comes to it I don't if you and your husband are you alive or not but if you do just keep that in mind if you stay with him your child will see that and it will make child really upset