Is it selfish of me to worry about crazy things like dying during delivery? I think of the worst…

@myasmommy, it's normal lol and you're not gonna die 😂

no girl I was scared too.. the docs and nurses take good care of you tho;) I'm just fine with my baby boy!💙💙

Try not to take your anxious mind too seriously, it's just projecting fears due to insecurity, but you can turn them into positive affirmations if you really want. I do recommend 😊 Our bodies are made for this, remember that. I completely trust my body from the very start, because I chose to. It's not even an option for me to fear labor - because I chose to. Having this kind of mindset takes some work though, so I suggest try to find things that inspire you and have them close to you at all times so you can look at them when you feel unsettled. You can do this 😙

How could that be a selfish thought? Your body is going to go through trauma, and to think things like that is normal hun. Chances are very likely absolutely nothing will go wrong or happen to you, and you will be perfectly fine. And if something were to go wrong, you're in the best place possible - so there's that! Try to calm down, and if it makes you feel any better, I've had 5 kids. And Im still alive to talk about it 😏

Same ! I think it's perfectly normal. This is our first time having to experience this. Never have I ever been looking forward to being in labor knowing the pains are not fun but I'm just praying it's all worth it when I get to hold my child for the first time. I'll feel like a boss ! like wow something so beautiful actually came out of me. I'm sure it's very empowering

Im nervous for the same reason! Stillbirth is heavy on my mind now that I'm 38 weeks. I hate that my mind is thinking this way 😞

no i found that in my second trimester i started fearing those things. but take deep breaths, doctors are there to help and will do everything they can to ensure your and the babys health.