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Here I am having anxiety over a newborn and a 18 month old when my friend just had TWINS and has a 2 1/2 year old! 😱 all…

Here I am having anxiety over a newborn and a 18 month old when my friend just had TWINS and has a 2 1/2 year old! 😱 all boys and so cute!

Does anyone else feel super nervous about transitioning from 1-2? What helps calm your nerves? I could cry sometimes I get so nervous and anxious over this change.

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MelissaV

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

i had 3 back to back. it gets easier later on. just gotta learn habits and how to balance everything

dcb012

Dakota

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I have a 4 yr old, a 13 month old and I'm due in August..... Just gotta find a routine. But even with one, you have days where you're overwhelened

devanloves

devan

@mv92, that's what I hear, just the first few months/year are the hardest. I'm sure we will figure it out, my mind just goes crazy over thinking sometimes!

devanloves

devan

@dcb012, it's so true! I think that's what stresses me out the most. Knowing how overwhelmed and incapable I feel already with one some days makes me feel so unprepared for another. But I know it will all be okay and work out! I just get stressed over weird little things haha.

dcb012

Dakota

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

@devanloves, just find someone to call and cry to..... With one and with 2 I have called my mom bawling because I just can't..... And my mom laughs and says she understands because she remembers holding my brothers door closed while she just bawled outside of it..... Even on the days where you feel like you can't do it anymore, and want to pull your hair out, they love you. Through every spit up, fit, everything.... It's okay to break down

devanloves

devan

@dcb012, I will remember that! I always forget how much better I feel after I have a melt down day, it's almost like I have a clean slate and can make myself stronger for the days to come. Ugh. It's so hard but so amazing!! It's a good thing they are so cute! Haha. Thank you so much. This really helps. 💕

dcb012

Dakota

Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года), ждёт третьего

Of course!!!! :) and yes the cuteness is what keeps us all alive! 😂😘😘

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?