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Summer Rutherford
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So my baby daddy wasn't there through the whole beginning of my pregnacy .. Came back when I was about 5 months and…

So my baby daddy wasn't there through the whole beginning of my pregnacy .. Came back when I was about 5 months and stayed active for a month .. Now we are not talking again and he picked my sons middle name .. I really didn't like it so I wanted to change it .. Does anyone think that's wrong ... ( ps , he has wished death on my son , and he has checked how the baby is doing or anything ... Hasn't asked about a appointment or anything

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legally.yladrea.d

Yladrea N. DrummondВ ожидании первенца

@summerrye, good for you! No need to dwell

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summerrye

Summer RutherfordВ ожидании первенца

@ynm1990, yes ma'am it's set I'm changing it !!

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summerrye

Summer RutherfordВ ожидании первенца

@boymama, thank you so much I really needed that ! It just sucks I wanted my baby boy to have a father but I realize it's not even worth it ..

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legally.yladrea.d

Yladrea N. DrummondВ ожидании первенца

Sounds like a no brainer I'd change it

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boymama

ShayМама двоих (5 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@summerrye, I had to learn the hard way (10 years ago with my first) that you can try and force a boy to be a daddy but in the end it really just hurts the baby. If he has no "want to" to be a real father, which means being consistent for his baby, it will just confuse and hurt your child when he pops in and out. You and baby deserve a man not a boy. Don't you let yourself feel bad; you shouldn't have to try and include him on anything he should willingly be there.

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summerrye

Summer RutherfordВ ожидании первенца

@boymama, thank you i just feel bad .. I've tried to include him in every way but he's to busy being a man whore .

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boymama

ShayМама двоих (5 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

I wouldn't give a second thought to changing the middle name. He doesn't deserve to make decisions in your child's life if he doesn't want to be part of it. @summerrye

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Okay, so i just have a question (note im getting him into the dr monday)

Okay, so i just have a question (note im getting him into the dr monday) My oldest will be 3 in june, for the past month or so he randomly tells me his leg hurts, and now for the last couple of weeks he has been getting random fevers that last for about a day. He had one last night while my boyfriend was at work and starting hitting his head as if it were hurting. I give Tylenol, but i know this cant be normal.. So my question is, has anyone been through this with any of their babies and it not be anything serious? Im just worried about my baby🙁