Y'all, I've been at this crossroad for a while.... I've been letting my bangs grow out for a year…

Y'all, I've been at this crossroad for a while....

I've been letting my bangs grow out for a year now and while I like things about them I don't feel like my hair is really me. PLUS I'm always having problems with how to part it.

I had the bangs for 2 years and grew them out because I wanted hair "like everyone else" - and destroyed it going blonde.

So here is my question: bangs or no bangs?!

P.S. Throwing my hair up is not an issue with having bangs... It just looks a little messier lol (for when I have the baby)