Venting Need SOME OPINIONS PLEASE!!! SO I HAVE THIS GIRLFRIEND THAT IS DATING MY COUSIN AND SHE SAYS MY LIFE IS PERFECT AND GOOD BECAUSE I HAVE A HUSBAND Who Loves Me Very Much AND A 1 MONTH OLD BABY Girl THAT I HAVE NO WORRIES AND MY LIFE IS MILK AND HONEY AND I DONT HAVE NO PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE,, THAT HER LIFE IS NOT!! THAT SHE DOES NOT HAVE NO ONE IN HER LIFE TO CALL HER OWN!!! AND THROUGH MY WHOLE PREGNANCY SHE WANTED TO BE PREGNANT ALSO BECAUSE SHE SAW THAT I WAS PREGNANT AND I FELT LIKE SHE WAS NOT HAPPY FOR ME THAT SHE WAS RUNNING A COMPETITION WITH ME!! NOW THIS BITCH IS 1 MONTH PREGNANT FOR MY COUSIN AND I REALLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO FEEL, LIKE SHOULD I BE HAPPY FOR HER OR SHOULD I BE PISSED!! LIKE THIS BITCH IS TRYING TO BE LIKE ME SO BAD TO THE EXTEND THAT SHE EVEN GOT PREGNANT AND The Birch is SAYING SHE WANTS TO HAVE A GIRL BABY LIKE ME, AND NOW I FEEL LIKE IT'S A FUCKING COMPETITION!! WHY CAN'T SHE JUST BE HER AND STOP TRYING TO BE ME!!! IT'S LIKE SHE IS JEALOUS OF ME AND NOT REALLY MY FRIEND!!!!! What do y'all think???
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missing300user
Yeah it was an an odd situation, I mean she would come to me and say, " he compares me to you, by asking why can't I be like you, body wise and personality wise" well of course he knew me longer and jumped into a relationship with her thinking she was like me because we're cousins!!! After she had her baby she went from being anorexic to being very over weight, I knew and a lot of people knew that would happen because that side of her family was bigger. So it just spun out of control for him & well it goes way back with her. Her dad and my dad are cousins and they would hangout and as the story goes her parents did the same thing to my parents. She was born 4 weeks early on MY due date, her mom was crazier than her. Just because her mom wanted to be like mine. I didn't come out till 2 weeks after my due date so that didn't work. Needless to say those two divorced also! It's like history repeated itself.
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newmommysoon21
@soontobemomof4, hahahahahaha see God does not like UGLY SO THAT'S WHY THEY DID NOT LAST THAT LONG Together!! THE MORE THEY WORKED HARD TO BE LIKE YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND THE MORE THEY STOP PAYING ATTENTION TO THEIR RELATIONSHIP AND THE MORE IT WENT DOWN HILL FROM THERE!!!
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newmommysoon21
@myjulyprincesseli, me and her have the simaliar story like we both grew up with out having out real mother's around and she also dealt with a step mother mistreating her like I had to deal with so I guess she feels empty but that still should not make her competting with me for everything!! one time I felt like she was flirting with my husband... the bitch is crazy period
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newmommysoon21
exactly my point @missjess her mindset is all fucked up wanting someone else's life!!! I hope she learns the hard way
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xodreya
maybe she wants to feel happiness? someone that is hers . let's say your cousin doesn't stick around but she will always have her baby (: I see why It gets you mad but I'd be happy she found the happiness she's been looking for
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adrien.ayliena
@newmommysoon21, Wow that is so fucking crazy I'm not amazed because that happened to me with a few girls especially these 2 girls I use to know they did the same thing get pregnant an I felt the same way like they were trying be in competition with me ...but damn you seemed stress writing this on here I feel like you should just honestly go about your way and be the best that you can an you should tell your cousin an man about this see what your cousin says lol I bet they wouldn't understand. ....
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missjess
Getting pregnant doesn't solve any relationship problems, it doesn't make things go away or anything like that. And having a baby and being a mom is hard work! It's not all easy peasy. She has the wrong mind set for bringing a child into this world. And I don't blame you for going off on her. I would say something too. @newmommysoon21
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newmommysoon21
and she try and said that she is not competing with me and that she not jeaulose I almost beat her Ass in her own car we was in!! the bitch told me to get out her car and take my baby!! she lucky her Ass pregnant but as our friendship thats all done and over!! I can care less if she my cousin girlfriend @missjess
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newmommysoon21
@missjess, see that's what I'm saying, me and my husband right and aruge don't get me wrong and we have our own problems, but this bitch thinks my life is perfect that I have nothing to worry about!! I'm just so over it that I had to let her ass know tonight that she can never be me or have my life and I also let her know that having a baby and being a mom is hard this shit is not easy so I wish her and my cousin the best of luck!! I went off on her ass today and I told her that her Ass need to stop competing with me that she needs to live her own life!! but now she finally pregnant and got what she wanted and to be honest im not even happy for her just because this bitch thinks this a game
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missjess
I've always questioned how people try to be someone they aren't. I'm always me 100% people think others have it so great but everyone has faults, no one is perfect, no body has a perfect relationship everyone goes through ups and downs in life. It's not all rainbows and butterfly's like others perceive. We all fight our own demons. Seems like she is just insecure and jealous. Some people have to act like someone they aren't cause they don't even know how to be themselves.
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