my parents are trying to get me out of the hospital for my baby shower Saturday. Yes I would like to go to my shower, but with a shortening and thinning out cervix, I know that's not best. unless my doctor says their letting me go home tomorrow or Saturday, I really don't see me leaving here till my babies are born. it's been a high-risk pregnancy since day one. I tried to get my shower done at an earlier time. But no one wanted to listen to me about my pregnancy. They seemed to just blow it off. So now they see it is a risk. I know I want the best for my babies and I don't want them coming early, if I can prevent it. my husband will be there to open my gifts. mom will bring a few small ones here. as hard as their trying to get me to leave, I don't want them to be pushy towards my doctor. She knows what's best. Nobody really understands my pregnancy , but me, my husband and my doctors. ( family wise) I know lots of woman have been through the same thing including worse situations. you just don't always get people to understand unless their the ones going through it.