my parents are trying to get me out of the hospital for my baby shower Saturday. Yes I would like to go to my shower, but with a shortening and thinning out cervix, I know that's not best. unless my doctor says their letting me go home tomorrow or Saturday, I really don't see me leaving here till my babies are born. it's been a high-risk pregnancy since day one. I tried to get my shower done at an earlier time. But no one wanted to listen to me about my pregnancy. They seemed to just blow it off. So now they see it is a risk. I know I want the best for my babies and I don't want them coming early, if I can prevent it. my husband will be there to open my gifts. mom will bring a few small ones here. as hard as their trying to get me to leave, I don't want them to be pushy towards my doctor. She knows what's best. Nobody really understands my pregnancy , but me, my husband and my doctors. ( family wise) I know lots of woman have been through the same thing including worse situations. you just don't always get people to understand unless their the ones going through it.
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Good luck and God bless you and your babies :)
@noahsmommy, their actually gonna let me out today around 3:30 after getting my steroid shot. the did sonograms and measurements. everything is great. cervix is now showing 26mm. my doctor put me on strick bedrest at home. said my baby shower is fine. after that it's resting. I'm not able to sit in a chair working, so I'll have to find a bedside table to put my monitors on. I'll see my ob for another sonogram, and ffn test. I'll see my high-risk doctor Wednesday for another sonogram, cervix check and check the weight of the babies. I'm so happy to hear everything is okay. I just want my babies to come at 36-37 weeks. that's not far away at all. just 1 1/2 months.
@noahsmommy, I've heard from some woman they couldn't even tell that their contracting. that's kinda scary not knowing. It's good that your baby made it very close to term.
I suggest you stay in there and maybe have a welcome shower for your babies
Same thing happen to me at 31 weeks I started to dilated and they admitted me and i couldn't go home I was frustrated, but it was for babies own good. The machine was saying I was having contraction that I didn't feel and I was already 5 open so when they was going to discharged me at 35 week I open to 6 cm and they sent me back to the labor room and the next morning my water suddenly broke!!! I had no pain although water rapture and machine was saying I was having big contractions lol. So they had to give me pitocin I delivery baby at 35 weeks
@noahsmommy, I'm way to early to risk the babies coming out. I know they'll be fine. But the doctors perfer I get to 32 weeks. and then if we can make it further even better. I would love to get to 36-37 weeks. so if I gotta stay in the hospital, I'll do it. I'll do anything in and out of this world for my babies. It's just a bed for 1 month and two and half weeks. so far I have alot to keep me busy. different types of books, journals. I love to read and write and I've been looking for the time to make my twins a scrap book /photo album. TV, radio, internet. My husband will visit every day. may stay a night on the weekend. and bring my little boy up here every day. I'll have other company time to time. And my doctors and nurses are great and so outgoing. I'm relaxing and getting pampered :) I'm super happy my ob who is delivering my babies c-section as well works here most of the week. so she's always around to talk to me. She saw me soon as I got settled in observation. ordered me a plate. and has set me up an NICU tour. I know me and my son will miss eachother so much. he's with his daddy, he's taking good care of. and I'll be home in a flash. Well have two healthy little brothers to bring home to him. and I'll be taking him out of preschool for the summer. I get 12/weeks maternity leave and I want to enjoy it all. even after 12 weeks I work at home. so makes everything 100% more better. I'm a very blessed momma.
@summerrye, @mommytoprincessmckenzie yea my mom was talking about bringing a few small gifts up here for me to open them. I'm not big on having too many people at the hospital with me. Just both sides of parents, siblings and a couple of friends. Just...not all at once :) unless I'm having the babies.
Yeah, why don't you just do a small one in the hospital, so you can enjoy it too.
@noahsmommy, thank you