seriously, all I think about is myself just because I don't want your mom in the room with me when I'm giving birth!? I'm the one having to deal with pain, and no sleep and mood swings and oh not to mention pushing a baby out of my fucking vagina! so if selfish is what you wanna call it well then yes! I'm so selfish. I have 9 more weeks of just being me so kiss my fucking ass.
@lucyyxoxo_, I'm sure he'll end up asking someone but that really doesn't matter because as long as it's up to me she won't be in there.
when my sister had my niece in 2008, there were 6 of us in there. but she was 16 yrs old soooooo idk if its changed.
@mamapeanut5683, OH my goodness...what a B!! well u got every right to refuse.
gotcha lol I read it wrong. my bf mentioned to me once he wanted his mom in there. I didn't want him to feel some type of way so I just said you know she has never been by your sisters side with all 3 of her babies so why be there with me? best way to get out of it for me. does he know how many people are allowed? just say 3 is the max?
@spayanes85, his mother didn't even like me up until recently and wanted to fight me the day the baby is born. like um no thanks!
its up to you who u want in there. i feel the same as you....my MIL is not going in there....cause I think she would probably talk shit about me behind my back. she has never liked me and my husband and I have been togethe for 15 yrs!
well apparently he needs support from his mother too. if he doesn't watch it he'll be sitting his ass in the waiting room getting all the support from his mother that he needs lol #mamasboys
My mom was in the room with my oldest plus my sons fathers mom I don't think I couldn't have done it without them. Lol... But I get your point it's your baby
Oh my mom will be there. my boyfriend wants his mom in there. I'm already going to have him, my mom and my sister in there. @lucyyxoxo_
Her mother in law I think ^ @lucyyxoxo_ , trust me I wouldn't want my MIL in there either ! Lol I want my mama and bf that's it!
@mamapeanut5683, that's just so awkward. Like oh yeah sure I want your mom to see all of me while a baby is coming out... I'm NO. Honesty why would someone even want to be in the room? Wait till everyone's all happy n calm and baby has arrived.
I completely understand. it's better to just not have her than for it to be an argument that day. I wish I wouldve told my bf don't let anyone come in. I ended up kicking out his sister bc I was in my moment and didn't want anyone to look at me that way. she helped us alot just days before . I felt bad afterwards.