I'm having such a hard time losing weight I lost 4 pounds that's it I'm scared for my doctors…

why

are you trying to lose weight?

I was over weight when I got pregnant I was 196 this Saturday ill be 20 weeks but at my last appointment I weighed 219 and she blew up on me for gaining weight to fast so she gave me a month to lose about 10 pounds ive only lost 4 so im at 215 she said she really wants my weight to be at 200 but for now she only wanted me to lose 10 idk I dont think its good for the baby to lose that much @mommybear0809

That is all weight for the baby don't let them talk down on you. I was over weight also and at the end of my pregnancy I believe I was 220 something

@akm2396, Shouldn't hurt the baby to lose weight, I've lost just over 30lbs since I started (not intentionally) and I was a bit over weight too. Baby will get what it needs regardless, and I know it's hard not too but I wouldn't stress it too much as long as you're not at risk for gestational diabetes or something like that. I mean try your best for the baby to be healthy but your body is doing what it needs to for this pregnancy. Good luck either way with your doc, hope she doesn't yell too much. She should be impressed you've lost anything...just saying. 😉

im thinking about getting a new doctor bc she was really rude she said I was gonna be 300 pounds and she's gonna have to roll me into the er I wanted to start crying there but I waited till i got to the car @jahnessagarcia

Yea you need a new dr. She's rude and I wouldn't take it anymore. When I was pregnant with my first I started out at 126 and gained almost 100 pounds while pregnant. I couldn't help it but my dr never complained about it. She told me my body is doing what it thinks it needs to do. After baby I lost it all. It's ok to gain weight. She's being a witch

Yes get a new doctor hon because that is just bullshit. No doctor should make their patients feel like shit and talk to them that way. You are going to gain weight that's what comes with pregnancy an as a doctor she should know that. @amm2396

@amm2396,

When i got pregnant i weighed 260 and now I weigh 274 so don't feel bad about your weight! I wish i could be 200 lbs again :( hopefully after my daughter gets here i'll start losing weight and get down to at least 210