so this last couple of days my bf has really been on this marriage kick...i mean he told me once before that he wanted to marry me but now he's in a rush to do it. when i asked why he was like "I kno when i have something good and I don't want to lose it" that was a very sweet response but it kinda made me give him the side eye 😒 he is never in a rush to make major decisions and he knows that i had no plans on leaving him...am i wrong for being suspicious of his timing?
@woahmama, this will be our first child but he takes care of my other two like they're his (especially the 7yo,you can't tell her that's not her daddy lol) and thanks i will talk to him about slowing it down a bit. I just don't want him to think that he HAS to marry me because of the baby
@aurielshantel, but many men are willing to especially if your already sharing a child together i think your extremely blessed.if you don't want to rush don't theres nothing with your baby making an appearance at the ceremony. 😊
maybe its his way of nesting we wants the family to be complete... its a beautiful thing.
@candacelouise, @mama_icie maybe you guys are right his emotions have been worse than mine throughout this pregnancy...he got clingy and super affectionate out of nowhere.
maybe just wants to do the right thing before baby is born or shortly after men can do sum crazy shit and say crazy shit as well when they get pregnancy sympathetic hormones just dont mind it maybe hea growing up more too just never know
@aurielshantel, awww.and yeah maybe you guys can talk about planning for later on VS rushing