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Danielle
Danielle
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)

guys I am so scared that my boyfriend will miss our daughter's birth. he has been in the hospital for a week. he's…

guys I am so scared that my boyfriend will miss our daughter's birth. he has been in the hospital for a week. he's getting a feeding tube placed in the morning and as soon as he learns how to use the pump he can come home but will have to be admitted back to the hospital in 2-3 weeks for more MRIs and another procedure to try and fix his pancreas. I am at the point where baby girl could come at any moment. I don't know what to do. I can't have this baby alone and I have no family here.

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laytons_mommy

DanielleМама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)

@amilo561, yeah he would be on the 5th floor and I'd be on the 8th. I just worried that they will have him in for a procedure and miss it. he doesn't react to anesthesia well so it puts him out for like the whole day

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amilo561

AlexaМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

:( :( so sorry . . . would you give birth in the same hospital that he is in at least? obviously that wouldn't be ideal but at least he would be close

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lil_bigmama

lil_bigmamaМама сына (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)

hun it will take him to time to learn how to use the pump don't worry god has a way of working stuff out

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