One thing that I've never understood is the reasoning behind couples and joint Facebook accounts... I just don't get it.

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@babymay2016, exactly! If I can't trust the person I'm with then I'm not going to be with them. I have a zero tolerance when it comes to things like tgwt

I just think it is so stupid. If you have to check your SO's messages and make sure they're not doing/saying something they shouldn't... you shouldn't be with that person! I have never been that type of person. Once I even feel the need to do that, I'm already gone.

@mommylife2three, yeah I can understand that. I only have one to keep up with old friends or family

@mrsthig, I mean if I'm bored I'll just scroll through my husbands Facebook just to see what everyone is up to on his or what not but I fully trust him, so I get what you're saying. I just don't understand the logic behind joint facebooks or Instagram when it comes to trust. But I'm the person that doesn't accept any bull and will leave if I don't trust you or if you don't earn my trust back.

when me and my husband got to the actual serious dating we both closed our accounts. we haven't had a Facebook account since and that's five years. we just don't feel the need for one.

Lol I think that's silly, but my husband and I switch between each other's FB all the time (we have our music, game, etc accts linked to our FB)

@elenalee, I mean if they are going to cheat, they are going to cheat.. Joint social media won't really change that.. And just my personal opinion but if you can't trust someone enough to have their own accounts then it's not worth a relationship.,. @babymay2016 That's absolutely insane.. I just don't get those kind of relationships.. If you can't trust someone at all then why be with them? Love is nothing without trust.

Exaxtly I totally agree @lunden_hope

Yeah I mean as far as trust goes, if you can't trust your significant other to have their own social media or The other way around then why have one at all? Like if the trust is that bad then I don't think joint social media will change it.. And as far as not getting on it enough but wanting to stay updated, I somewhat understand @countrymama166 @sidanddelos15 @jayson21_41

It's also for accountability so there isn't any doubt whether or not your being faithful.

LOL I totally agree. And then also I have couple friends who use only one cell phone.... I get that if it is for saving money... but they have joint accounts on everything because they don't trust each other. Why marry someone like that? I will never know 😅

I've considered doing a joint facebook with my husband just because he doesn't get it on it enough but he wants to stay updated.

It has to do with trust I'm sure

I don't either