I'm sorry but day cares and family friends will NOT be watching harmony only me my mom and her god father . I just can't put my precious baby in danger i don't want to take that chsnce. People are crazy and just waiting to ruin your life I would blow some shit up if harmony ever get a scratch from some one holding her! Lol I watch the news I watch to much investigation tv shows lol so I'm paranoid .
Exactly I hope you can find a early morning job sweetie . Don't want anything to happen to your child @ashleyandadan
I'm on the same page hopefully I can find a morning job since my husband works nights that way we can just trade off because I don't trust anyone with my child besides my gma and my mom but my gma has been sick and my mom lives far away from me, my sister has told me to let her was my son when he is born but I can't trust her because I see how she treats her own and I'm not okay with that, I see it like this if you treat your child like that how will you treat my baby that can't defend himself
yea I know girl but sadly it happens on the daily. it always makes me think like...if u act that way to my child how r u going to or do you treat your own child?! ya know?
Exactly ! Like there's no way . @jnh199243 . It's just sad how we can't trust people close to us to be able to look after a baby a precious baby , yes they whine and all that but how can that make you so mad or so annoyed . To someone helpless . It breaks my heart
@firstbabybump, yea we r lucky not everyone can keep their kids out of a sitter. but after that happened with our son I went off on her and swore I wouldn't let anyone have my babies again. I understand accidents happen but my son was 7 months when that took place so I consider that neglect? how does a 7 month old get carpet burn and random cuts?!?!?!
only myself, my sister and my mom have watched my 20 month old. my husband has too of course. I'm really picky and my husband's family hates me because of it... but my husband's father likes little girls. . my husband's step mom is only 2 years older than me.. his dad got her pregnant when he was 30 and she was 13. my husband's grandparents are totally ok with the fact. my husband's father has also recently got put of jail for domestic violance and child abuse. he beat my husband until he was 16 and moved out. the fact my husband's grandparents are ok with all of this and see nothing wrong with it is why not a single one of them will ever be alone with my child.
See that's what I mean it's crazy like why treat a child like that ! I'm glad y'all are able to work that out . That baby did not deserve that @jnh199243
I am the same way. None of my children have been in a daycare or left with anyone other than myself their father or my parents. I tried to let a cousin once and my child came back with carpet burn and cuts. I was pissed. good thing me and hubby can work out our schedules so we don't have to worry about a sitter
thank you