is it so much to ask for help getting up with our child at night? no instead he sleeps out in the living room so I have…

@indigenousmommy, hm. maybe

@6215teenmom, then I don't see how it would be a problem helping out at night. Maybe you can switch off every other night comforting the baby?

@indigenousmommy, when he's not working he is very helpful. we've only ever had a problem at night. during the day he helps with her & other things too in order to make my pregnancy easier. it's just the waking up is where we have an issue.

Is he helpful other times during the day or does he expect you to completely take over caring for your babies?

@indigenousmommy, this is the second time this week.

I would be so pissed, don't let him get away with that shit.

Wtf what a huge baby.

@indigenousmommy, well last night I woke him up because I was so drained and hurting and he wouldn't get up and I said I needed help I couldn't do it myself so he got mad took care of her then went into the living room to sleep for the rest of the night.

You need sleep just as much as he does. If not more because you're pregnant.

My SO didn't get up to help with my son (not his) but I told him I'd like him to help me and he agreed to. Maybe you just need to bring it up again in a non confrontational way?

@indigenousmommy, well I understand he works but he doesn't work until 11, I have to get up at 7. not that I don't mind getting up with her but every time is ridiculous.

Lame excuse. Especially if it's not true.

@indigenousmommy, he just says I'm not the only one that does it.

That seems so unfair. Have you talked to him about it?!