is it so much to ask for help getting up with our child at night? no instead he sleeps out in the…

That seems so unfair. Have you talked to him about it?!

@indigenousmommy, he just says I'm not the only one that does it.

Lame excuse. Especially if it's not true.

@indigenousmommy, well I understand he works but he doesn't work until 11, I have to get up at 7. not that I don't mind getting up with her but every time is ridiculous.

My SO didn't get up to help with my son (not his) but I told him I'd like him to help me and he agreed to. Maybe you just need to bring it up again in a non confrontational way?

You need sleep just as much as he does. If not more because you're pregnant.

@indigenousmommy, well last night I woke him up because I was so drained and hurting and he wouldn't get up and I said I needed help I couldn't do it myself so he got mad took care of her then went into the living room to sleep for the rest of the night.

Wtf what a huge baby.

I would be so pissed, don't let him get away with that shit.

@indigenousmommy, this is the second time this week.

Is he helpful other times during the day or does he expect you to completely take over caring for your babies?

@indigenousmommy, when he's not working he is very helpful. we've only ever had a problem at night. during the day he helps with her & other things too in order to make my pregnancy easier. it's just the waking up is where we have an issue.

@6215teenmom, then I don't see how it would be a problem helping out at night. Maybe you can switch off every other night comforting the baby?

@indigenousmommy, hm. maybe