Please tell me if I'm in the wrong.
My cousin gave birth just over a week ago I'm happy for her don't get me wrong. But my nan has decided to go stay near her for a month to be around and help with her baby. She never did this for me and has only see my daughter for 2 hours in the last 3 months. I was asked today if I would go and see them for the day. I told them that it wouldn't be possible as its a 3 hour round trip and that I've been in and out of hospital lately but told them they are welcome to come to mine. After telling me I am selfish, they are now not wanting to have anything to do with me or my daughter because I wouldn't go see them.
If I hadn't been in and out of hospital I would happily go. But I didn't fancy ending up in a hospital I don't no while being in pain and have no one to look after my daughter.
What is people's opinions on this?
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I spoke to them and they didn't want to no. Apparently seeing the baby is more important than my health and not putting my daughter at risk @babyboots @winterbaby95 xx
Awe hun, I hope everything turns out ok. It is horrible that they aren't seeing things from your side. Don't worry about it hun xx
I would if you don't say anything they will never no how U feel hun Xx good luck xx
I think you should have a little word and explain how you feel and your reasons for not going hun.. hope all works out for you xxx
aawww that's not good hun xxx big hugs always here if U need to talk xxx