Being overdue sucks. My ex doesn't check on me, he doesn't talk to me. All we do is fight and he thinks he should get to be there when she's born when he hasn't even seen me in 3 months!
being there for baby after birth is fine but I wouldn't want someone to be present during a very private and vulnerable time who doesn't support you physically or emotionally. he has lost that privilege. I would call the next day after the birth or maybe once you get home and comfortable. my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago I'm now 18 weeks and he definitely won't get that call until I get home. ..maybe weeks later
I would let him. As long as he wants to be in her life let him. He doesn't have to want to talk to you.Just as long as he is there for the baby.
Don't call him and tell the hospital that he's not allowed in the room BEFOREHAND or As SOON as you get there
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
He doesn't hug me when we are sleeping anymore and before he went to work he didn't hug me goodbye I'm sad :(
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
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I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
@junesmommy15, say it again He shouldn't have to talk to you to be apart of his child's life stop make it about and make it about the child.