People keep telling me " oh you still young. you can try again" Umm it haven't been a week yet and I'm supposed to move…

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@erinflaherty818, my first one , I made it to 13 weeks and it was too small to tell the gender and it was quick . I was in so much pain that time, I never forget it. my second one, the most recent one, I made it to 16 weeks and I had to deliver him. . . it was so hurtful and painful and I'm still not over it.. the sadness definitely taking over me but I'm trying my best to overcome it . . I will never forget but I can say now I have two angels in my shoulder.

@k.rosario, thank hunn appreciate it

I can't imagine holding him, how sad :(. Mine was a baby girl, but I was taken immediately to ER and put under anesthesia. My doc said that by the time that happened, I had already passed half of the pregnancy. Pregnancies that late are incredibly painful to lose physically and emotionally. At full-term, you can ignore the pain or deal with it because you know there's a happy ending. When miscarrying, I feel like the physical pain is multiplied because there is just nothing good coming out of the experience, only sadness.

I'm so sorry for your loss :/

@sharondeshonta, oh I will.....it definitely not easy at all . but thank you hunn appreciate it

Girl take all the time you need!! Before you try again make sure your mentally prepared to start over again. Loosing two babies just like that isn't easy.. I'm not sure what ur going through exactly but I could only imagine.. One of my close friends went through the same thing and it took her 3 years to mentally be prepared to try again.. So take as long as you need..

@erinflaherty818, thank you . having two losses is taking a troll in me. I'm trying to stay positive, my hubby had been very supportive as well as my family but certain things like oh you will be okay you can try again , it like no I will never be okay . . I've lost the first one a year ago and still not okay with it. this time, I found out I had a son and they made me held him and name him, it is a lot harder than before. I had a little bond with him and it hurt my soul n some people just don't get that . so thank you hunn I really appreciate your openness and honesty.

@feemarie802, thank hunn 😔

People are so stupid and insensitive. Angel babies are living breathing bodies. Losing a baby...some people never get over it. I lost a pregnancy at 14 weeks almost 3 years ago, and I still can't talk about it without completely losing my shit. Take your time...keep those people away from you until you're ready.

I'm so sorry :(