People keep telling me " oh you still young. you can try again" Umm it haven't been a week yet and I'm supposed to move on like that . like nope. I am grieving mother who lost her son & another angel in previous pregnancy. . . This time around, it is harder and I'm trying my best to accept it. I just wish people include my family would just let me grieve in peace & move on in my own time. All I know is I will never forget my son Aj and my angel. .. Mommy & Daddy love you guys.
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@erinflaherty818, my first one , I made it to 13 weeks and it was too small to tell the gender and it was quick . I was in so much pain that time, I never forget it. my second one, the most recent one, I made it to 16 weeks and I had to deliver him. . . it was so hurtful and painful and I'm still not over it.. the sadness definitely taking over me but I'm trying my best to overcome it . . I will never forget but I can say now I have two angels in my shoulder.
I can't imagine holding him, how sad :(. Mine was a baby girl, but I was taken immediately to ER and put under anesthesia. My doc said that by the time that happened, I had already passed half of the pregnancy. Pregnancies that late are incredibly painful to lose physically and emotionally. At full-term, you can ignore the pain or deal with it because you know there's a happy ending. When miscarrying, I feel like the physical pain is multiplied because there is just nothing good coming out of the experience, only sadness.
@sharondeshonta, oh I will.....it definitely not easy at all . but thank you hunn appreciate it
Girl take all the time you need!! Before you try again make sure your mentally prepared to start over again. Loosing two babies just like that isn't easy.. I'm not sure what ur going through exactly but I could only imagine.. One of my close friends went through the same thing and it took her 3 years to mentally be prepared to try again.. So take as long as you need..
@erinflaherty818, thank you . having two losses is taking a troll in me. I'm trying to stay positive, my hubby had been very supportive as well as my family but certain things like oh you will be okay you can try again , it like no I will never be okay . . I've lost the first one a year ago and still not okay with it. this time, I found out I had a son and they made me held him and name him, it is a lot harder than before. I had a little bond with him and it hurt my soul n some people just don't get that . so thank you hunn I really appreciate your openness and honesty.
People are so stupid and insensitive. Angel babies are living breathing bodies. Losing a baby...some people never get over it. I lost a pregnancy at 14 weeks almost 3 years ago, and I still can't talk about it without completely losing my shit. Take your time...keep those people away from you until you're ready.
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
Some people I swear 🙄
I'm just going to sit here and shake my head at you. You are ridiculous. 🖐🏻
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I can’t stand when you ignore a man’s cat-call & they be like “iight F you! You ugly anyway” lmfao like weren’t you JUST trying to bag me🤔 please tell me I am not the only one this has happened to?! Is this only a NY thing? Lmao
So I'm thinking of baby girl names , because I pray that baby number two is a girl 👑
My son's name is Eli & I would like for her to have an "E" name like my son.
So far I have three I like
Elle
Eva
Eliza
Short, simple and unique 😍 Any more you ladies can think of besides Elizabeth lol ?
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