I feel like my bf is just slipping away little by little. I don't want to think that but just seeing that he has more fun with his friends and can be out all day on his motorcycle and not spend family time with us gets me mad! I just don't know what to think anymore. His mom is now starting to realize how her son is and gives me advise on it. She told me to go live with my mom for 2 weeks but I know that once I leave I won't want to come back. I want to start my own life with my son and be happy but idk what's holding me back.
Thank you. I don't even take a break for myself. I have my son all day everyday. I understand that I am a mother but a couple of hours to myself can help me and he gets mad if I want to go do something. I just wish he can open his eyes and realize he is messing up our family.
I had to have my mother in law talk to my hubs one time because there was no getting through to him. She called him with a "sense" that something was wrong (no way did I want her to tell him that I made her call him) and they talked it all out and she basically told him to stop being a stubborn jerk. And it turned him around completely. Sometimes it takes someone else to help them see what they're doing wrong, and for some reason they never want to believe us 😑