any time sweetie, I hope everything works out for you tonight. maybe try talking to him when he sobers up tomorrow. let him know that this behavior is breaking you. good luck

@maybaby2016, I tried.. but I don't like to talk about things that happened before we even met.. & he like drills me about it.. but I agree.. I don't ever compare him to anyone because I think he's absolutely amazing but his insecurities get the best of him all the time.. I just emotionally shut down on the couch & cried.. then I ignore him & went & laid down.. he came in & apologized but I'm just not having it.. it's always like this when he drinks.. he's not a bad guy & he doesn't drink a lot but when he does this is how it is.. & I've told him to just go be with someone who is perfect in his eyes.. it's just hard, I don't know what else to do.. but thanks for letting me vent.. I needed it.

you need to let him know that the comparisons need to stop now. you don't do that in a relationship, that's just a recipe for disaster. let him know that hurts. I wouldn't be able to handle that, I'd have to tell him to go be with her then if he wants you to be so much like her. ugh, sorry sweetie

@maybaby2016, Me & her are friends now but I'm just sick of being compared to others & how they did or do things.. I'm not them, I'm me.. & I say the same thing.. it's hard, I love him.. & we have our baby girl due in about 2 months but idk how much more I can take.. I'm trying to stay strong for our little girl.. I don't want a broken apart family.. :(

oh no, if my husband ever compared ne to his ex that would be it! that's a huge no no.