10 days until im going to be induced..im so scared and nervous, being induced just sounds scary. and my boyfriend (who is not the biological dad) is being so mean and unsupportive. like he obviously knew i was pregnant with another mans baby when we got back together, but now that shes really coming, he is becoming more and more distant and being super mean to me. if he keeps acting like this then ill just go to the hospital by myself, as much as i would be super scared to go through everything alone atleast i wouldnt have someone there that doesnt even want my daughter around, there at her birth...ugh.
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@kristenrosasco, thank you. i didnt think of it that way.
I know it's not his baby... but a man becomes a father when he sees and holds the baby for the first time, no sooner than that. Definitely still give him the chance. Let him know and let him decide to go to the birth or not. This could be a once in a lifetime opportunity for him. If he misses it because you don't let him know it's happening he may be very upset. Of course honey it's up to you in the end though💜
It could be that he's nervous or scared. My husband was like that about a month ago and when I finally got fed up with it and told him he won't be in the room he told me sorry and it's because he's scared....he's never seen a birth (unfortunately he couldn't make it to our daughters) and he doesn't know what to expect. When I told him I was in labor he was freaking out because he knew he was becoming a father. I would tell your bf that he's being mean and it's hurting you, if he wants to be in there that's fine but he has the choice. It's all up to you and I hope you get everything figured out.