Got my membranes swept and I don't care what anyone says, for me that shit hurt quite a bit lol. So yeah...I feel pretty damn violated & I'm about to lay down for the day.
@candacelouise, thank you😊 and I'm definitely being flexible. I have a birth plan but it's mainly common courtesy things. I'm going to give it to one of the nurses. I know things might not go my way but some of it could
I hope it works for you! Put me into early labor signs but not pass. I effaced all the way and dilated 2 more cm.
@raegenice, you can do it! I think going in with a positive mind helps a lot. And being flexible with what all you want to happen. I guess more or less the "birth plan". I am not even making one. Just want healthy baby and me when it's all done and over with
@candacelouise, I think I am but I'm still really nervous, I haven't shown it though.
@candacelouise, 😂 don't let your fear cloud you momma. I'm due in a few days
@raegenice, lol, I'm so nervous for labor I told my doctor not to rush him out. If he wants to stay untill sept or October I'm perfectly fine with it. He didn't go for it. Haha I'm due in May.
@candacelouise, my little man is comfy too lol since I'm 39 weeks almost 40 that's why I went with it. She asked me when I was 37 weeks but I told her I could wait so I did
@raegenice, lol yeah that's what I meant.. If I "choose" to. Hopefully labor just starts without having to make that choice. Haha doubt it though. He seems pretty comfy where he is so far.
@candacelouise, you won't HAVE to, your doctor should ask you if you want it done. but I won't sugarcoat it lol it was far from pleasant but I'm praying it kick starts labor. If not, I'm out back
@raegenice, everyone says it hurts! I'm nervous if I have to get it done. Lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@raegenice, yeah it's good to be flexible I think! My nurse said that 75% of c sections are because women try to dictate/stress too much over birth plans. That if they would just let things go how they are gonna go and not try to plan it.. They would've been able to have a natural birth. But I do know I don't want tons of people at the hospital until wayyyyy after baby is born. I wanna be able to spend time with him by myself. And not have to share. Hash