Has anyone had their husband talk and message girl's and you found out but trying to work it out? if so doe's it get easier this happened while i was pregnant and i wanted to try and work it out for our son but I'm really hurt that he would do that. every time i think about it i feel like crying and i may can forgive in time but i can't ever forget like he wants me to. 😖
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Yes.. Unfortunately more than once I confront him and he cries in my face apologizes and I'm an idiot and forgive him but we are happy or so I think or thought last time I checked I didn't see anything crazy but I or kissed j wouldn't look again it drives me insane I felt insecure or feel it sucks so bad but in all honesty I did it to myself I accepted it more than once so he probably thinks that if he keeps doing it and I find out I'm staying again little does he know I have anew mind set with having my daughter now he's in for a rude awakening
I caught my fiancé doing this back in January. I left him for a week and decided that I didn't wanna live without him. He had never done anything of the sort prior and we talked it out. Now, he has blocked and deleted numbers, girls off facebook and does what he can to prove that it will not happen again. I still have my doubts but when i do I bring it up with him and we work through it. You can work through it if you want to. you have to be open to talking through it and making sure your feelings are known as well as his. You also have to be willing to trust him again, its easier said than done but it can be done.
Avoiding it isn't going to make it stop hurting. It will always be in the back of your mind if you don't get it out in the open and allow yourself to heal.
My fiancé did that whenever we first got together. We weren't even together two months. I broke up with him & it gave him time to figure out what he truly wanted. Because there was no way in HELL I was going to share my man with anyone. He deleted his old Facebook & made a new one. (He had over 3,000 friends) He now only adds people he knows. & he got a new cellphone number. He has proven to me that this is what he really wants & it has been a while. We moved on from it. I'll admit it still hurts every now & then but there's no way in hell I would still be with him or even planned this baby with him if he was still doing it.
You just have to force yourself to stop thinking about it and it'll get easier. Cry all that you need too then stop and move on. Don't think of her, don't look at her Facebook/social media, don't check his phone, don't mention it, don't think about it and eventually it won't hurt anymore
I know and that's okay just be kind to yourself and know it's perfectly fine to be wherever you are in your journey @tylersbaby30
Thank you i just needed to hear I'm not wrong in the way i feel i mean like you said he made his bed. just wish it didn't hurt so damn bad. 😔 @sparklymama
well my soon to be ex husband made that mistake but it was more than talking but that was the first clue.... in a manner of support just know that forgiveness is for you but the other person and in addition you may never "forget" and guess what he made his choice and consequences are natural... he fucked up so he doesn't get a say in how you feel or how you heal... the old saying he made the bed he can lay in it has never been so true... I will also say you will actively have to work towards moving forward otherwise you will not
Yes, I feel you, it happened to me && now he's a whole different person. He promised me he would change && he has.