I'm sorry but just because your man doesn't drop what he is doing right then and there to get you something shouldn't have any indication of how important you or your child are to him. He's doing something and maybe he doesn't want to stop and forget exactly what it was he was working on or maybe he's close to being done and just wants to finish what he's doing before he starts something else. Deal with it. Your man does not have to wait on you hand and foot. This goes the same the other way around.
Im done. lol
exactly! im a sahm, my fiance busts his ass at work every day, i ask for his help around the house on his off days and i also let him sleep in when he doesnt have to be up. Would i like a little extra help around the house? of course, but im not gonna throw a fit because he doesn't want to help after getting off work from a long day, i dont really ask my fiancé for help with much unless i literally cannot do it on my own. Independence is a good thing and some of these women just don't get that. lol they think their man has to be there every minute of the day and doing everything with them. let the man have a life. lol @jensensmom
Yeah I see them all the time and just scroll past. I understand it can be frustrating if you really need help with something but some of the stuff I see is so petty. My guy works third shift so I understand he needs to sleep before he goes to work and I'm not awake when he gets home so I do everything myself. He helps on his days off. It will be harder when the baby is here but I'm not going to bitch about everything he doesn't do.
@emkasting @jensensmom glad everyone seems to agree! lmfao It's not even just one individual post, though one did spark the anger in me today to say this, but i see a lot of women on here constantly saying this shit. just makes me sooo mad. You should never just expect someone to drop what they're doing just to do something for you if you're capable of doing it on your own.
YES YES. 🙌🏼 I can only guess what post(s) you're talking about but I've been thinking the same thing!
He also shouldn't have to do something the moment he gets home from work either. Give him time to relax.
Seriously! My boyfriend works all day every day and I've not been working my entire pregnancy cause I was on bed rest for the majority. He does so much for both of us and when he gets home the last thing I expect is for him to wait on me hand and foot! Like when I see people on here all pissed at their boyfriends because they won't drop what they're doing to make them food...like you're more than capable of doing that yourself 😒