They were happy I told them. They wanted to meet me and see my baby's ultrasounds and stuff

I would tell them and let them choose to be there or not I did that with my son and they were there at first and then after while they would pop in and out of his life when they felt like it the last time they saw my son was on his 4th birthday and then messaged me right after his 8th birthday to see him and that's the day I cut then off and told them no more i hope everything goes great for you and everything works out you will never know unless you try

@dang_dridri, @mjmommy thanks ladies ! I'm going to try it out.

@babymaciesmomma, what was their response

Just because he doesn't want to be involved doesn't mean they feel that way. My oldest brother moved to a whole different state when he found out his gf was pregnant and we still talk to her and see my nephew all the time. I would give them the opportunity to be there if they want. You never know.

I did that with my first cause he was ignoring me and I wanted to give them a chance to be involved

nope! not at all I think they have a right to know so that u give them the chance of whether or not they want to be involved in baby's life👍just don't get ur hopes up just in case they decide not to@k.e wishing u all the best mommy to be😊