I just love it when people assume because you have a vaginal birth that you automatically don't feel…
I just love it when people assume because you have a vaginal birth that you automatically don't feel pain how people who have had c sections do. uh excuse me... no ma'am. not everyone who has a vaginal delivery has a perfect one. I have had 2 friends who have had to have c sections. . at like 2 weeks they were moving around and doing stuff like they never even had a baby... one of them never even took pain meds once they left the hospital. I had a vaginal delivery with my first and it took me well over 2 months to be able to do the way they did at 2 weeks. I was cut and torn and had so many stitches my dr lost count. It took over an hour for her to fix everything. Usually right after birth they take the epidural out... but no.. they left mine in for a full 15 hours after she was born. that's how bad it was. so excuse me... but don't try and tell me c sections are always worse... no. they aren't always worse.
Gwendolyn Paschal·
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I hate that we really care about which one is better or worse. We find a way how to make issues out of none. The goal is a healthy baby and Mom. Whatever we have to do to achieve the two.
Kimberly ·
I preferred my c section over my vaginal birth. I tell everyone that. They both sucked though.
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@nicemmcha2015, Girl I only had 2 stitches & my vagina felt like it was going to FALL OUT when I walked or even sat my ass down. It was like someone put a bowling ball at the top of a tall ass slide & let it go with me on the bottom & my legs wide ass open. I know c sections have to be painful but to me mine was painful too, shit. As soon as they said I could press the epidural button again (once I delivered her) my ass hit that bitch again because I knew I didn't wanna feel my legs again any time soon. 😂😂😂
shannaa24·
there's always a woman that's gonna have their opinions on everything anyone does. I've been told the same thing. some woman say c-section is worse. some say its been the best thing for them. every woman is different and experiences something different. nobody can tell you your pain. only you can. some people say I should have my twins naturally, that I shouldn't have an epidural. they all got all their opinions. but I prefer the safest route for me and my babies. my high-risk doctor highly recommends me to do a c-section with this pregnancy because of all the risk. her opinion matters to me. there's definitely ignorant people out there.
Nicole Matthews·
@theinkedmommy, right.. those stitches don't play especially in that kind of a place.. standing up after all that it seriously felt like everything was going to fall out lol it was terrible. and oh yeah I don't doubt they are painful for a minute. but being cut and ripped isn't what I'd call having it "easier". lol
and yeah @shannaa24 you're right!
Nicole Matthews·
@mommyofacountryboy, oh jesus...ow