so the father of my child bailed when he found out I was pregnant and then showed up 7 months later…

Don't let him guilt trip you

@jnmich, tell him how you feel! maybe he doesn't know

' Well You Don't Have Too Have Him There, Not Like He's Really Participating In Anything Anyway From What You're Saying That's His Fault

he will be okay , don't let him het into your head . he's the bad one not you . he walked out not you . so he can suck it up

you're not a bad person. he hasn't been involved. that's his problem. not yours.

also, are you putting his last name on the birth certificate?

I would really consider either hyphenated or your name in case he decides to leave later on. My mom had mine and my brothers last names changed from our dad (who left) to hers.

going through the same exact thing except my fiance just left a week ago,but still expects me to let him i. the room.im getting a c section and since were not together i told him that i dont feel comfortable with him in there,cuz i need support and he wont do that.you are not in the wrong.

Don't tell him when your in labor. Call him after the baby is born. What is he going to do? Be mad at you? Who cares!

I'm sorry but screw him! He has no rights until and if he goes to court. until then it's all on you.

I didn't let my 17 year old sons dad in th he room not because we had broken up which we did but because he was such a sarcastic asshole I could just see him laughing at me! no way! I had my mom there for me :)