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OH decided to buy a second hand travel system today. I don't mind second hand but the frame is absolutely battered and I absolutely fucking hate it :( I don't want my baby in something that feels like it'll fall apart. I can't believe he just went ahead and got it. I want to cry and scream. He thinks he did good what the hell do I do?! :(
OH decided to buy a second hand travel system today. I don't mind second hand but the frame is absolutely battered and I absolutely fucking hate it :( I don't want my baby in something that feels like it'll fall apart. I can't believe he just went ahead and got it. I want to cry and scream. He thinks he did good what the hell do I do?! :(
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Thank you I'm sure I'll figure it out :) I'm just stressing now haha it's getting too close to d day @angie87 xx
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Thank you I'm sure I'll figure it out :) I'm just stressing now haha it's getting too close to d day @angie87 xx
Aw good luck @meadraven hope you manage to work it out xx
I'll see if I can find that thank you @mrsripper xx
He's less angry today but I'm still upset I'm gonna work this out even if I have to sell a bunch of stuff and buy something else he doesn't have to deal with it :/ everything we have so far is old and tatty and I'm so pissed off about it all :( @angie87 x
Aww this would have really upset me too ..... I don't what your budget was but my friend got her travel system from toysrus for 90 pound I think brand new and is black and red @meadraven
Maybe just give him a little time to think about it and try explain again we he's less annoyed and you're less upset? Sometimes things seem better when you've slept on it and you can tell him that even if you look for something of a similar price you just don't feel comfortable with this one. You could maybe look into ones that you can pay up? Xx
I told him and he just said we can't afford anything else and got in a really bad mood :( I'm sat downstairs crying because he won't do anything about it and I'm stuck with a crappy hunk of metal that I don't trust putting my baby in I have no idea what to do :( @angie87 xx
Think you need to be honest about how you feel @meadraven it's really a decision you should have been able to make together xx
But if I mention it he will just say we can't afford all of it new and that I should stop whining... The problem is this was so cheap that I'm worried. It is britax but it's been very well used :( @firsttimemummy21 xxx
I know I said the same thing I'm so upset :( @firsttimemummy21 xx
@meadraven, I always said the two things I'd never buy second hand are a moses basket and travel system! They're both so important and second hand you just dont know where they've come from or how old they are ect. I would be devastated if my oh did this xx
No worries chick :) xx@meadraven
Yeah you're right I'm so upset about it :( I have no choice but to tell him ffs thanks @courtniegeexo xx
Tell him Hun, there's no point bottling it up and he should've spoken to you first xx @meadraven